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<!--QuoteBegin-MedHead+Mar 18 2005, 05:12 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (MedHead @ Mar 18 2005, 05:12 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Most teens think they're in love, think they're going to die when they lose that love, but look back and realize how shallow that love really was. No offense, but if it was true love, you'd still be together.
EDIT: Haha, wow.
10 User(s) are reading this topic (0 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users) 10 Members: MedHead, kida, Faskalia, Pithlit, Phur Instinkt, twoflow, Lofung, Jimmeh, Owen!, Geminosity <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> May I ask you why the **** it matters what label it has? The fact are as the OP wrote it.
In my experiences with relationships (and boy, they are horrible...one sleeping with others of the same sex and wild "parties", another with a friend of mine...the list goes on), I must say that you have it easy.
Talking to another boy is not that big of a deal. If she's left you, fine, live and let live. If she truely has feeling for you, then she will come back. But, dude, never let something so small as her talking to someone more than you cause you to think that shes with someone else. Thats how relationships can fail and loose trust.
Just don't worry about it. Just take some time for yourself. Yea, having a chic can be great. Shoot, I do makeout sessions with mine to relax for tests (this one is the first good relationship ever...well, so far.).
Play lots of NS, drink, and have some fun. GET YOUR MIND OFF HER FOR A WHILE!!!
<!--QuoteBegin-TheDestroyer+Mar 18 2005, 01:25 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (TheDestroyer @ Mar 18 2005, 01:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> In my experiences with relationships (and boy, they are horrible...one sleeping with others of the same sex and wild "parties", another with a friend of mine...the list goes on), I must say that you have it easy.
Talking to another boy is not that big of a deal. If she's left you, fine, live and let live. If she truely has feeling for you, then she will come back. But, dude, never let something so small as her talking to someone more than you cause you to think that shes with someone else. Thats how relationships can fail and loose trust.
Just don't worry about it. Just take some time for yourself. Yea, having a chic can be great. Shoot, I do makeout sessions with mine to relax for tests (this one is the first good relationship ever...well, so far.).
Play lots of NS, drink, and have some fun. GET YOUR MIND OFF HER FOR A WHILE!!! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> QFT fo' real <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-Lofung+Mar 18 2005, 05:09 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Lofung @ Mar 18 2005, 05:09 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> 17. its not puppy love imo met her for 2~3 years already, been my girl for 9 months and everything go worse these days......
cant lose her or my public exam gonna crush =\ <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Yawnage get over it dude. You ain't even grow up yet, there's plenty more heartache out there waiting for you.
Short term fix = go out and get wasted then pull some slapper, rag her brains out then you'll feel much better.
<!--QuoteBegin-Faskalia+Mar 18 2005, 02:12 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Faskalia @ Mar 18 2005, 02:12 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> There is no such thing as love.
You are biomass controled by hormons and electric impulses. Your body will get over it in no time as well as your mind once you find another person attracting you. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Faskalia FTW!
<!--QuoteBegin-Faskalia+Mar 18 2005, 08:59 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Faskalia @ Mar 18 2005, 08:59 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--><!--QuoteBegin-Snidely+Mar 18 2005, 08:57 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Snidely @ Mar 18 2005, 08:57 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-twoflow+Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (twoflow @ Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> There's nothing like furious masturbation to raise the ol' spirits. Or vodka.
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Going out also helps quite a bit.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Chances are he'll start crying into his drink, and all his mates will shuffle away from him. Probably not a good idea. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Tequila!<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
EW! no! yur gena make me vomit! Listen to ol Snidelyand twoflow, Vodka ftw.
And your life isnt going to end, honestly, you've probebly just had a hormone rise(aka horny) and now really feel like your further from your goal(need I explain it?).
I can almost forget that im reading the natural-selection forums, and reading grouphug.us instead.
and <!--QuoteBegin-twoflow+Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (twoflow @ Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> is definatly signature material
Medhead's right. I highly doubt someone in their teens can understand love. Think about it. We're inexperienced in life itself, how can we begin to grasp something that people with 30 or 40 years over us are only beginning to understand.
My mother once told me, that love is a mutual understanding of responsibility for one another and a binding contract of faith. I take that definition as incomplete, personally. But she knows only this at her age, how can you expect to know it at yours?
**EDIT** I better watch out, before CForrestor posts some sort of Home-made love potion recipe. Christ...
I've heard of people dating in middle school and staying together, but just because you like someone when you're a teen, it doesn't mean you'll like them for ever. I know that if I date a girl right now, that I probably won't even remember them by the time I'm 20.
<!--QuoteBegin-twoflow+Mar 19 2005, 02:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (twoflow @ Mar 19 2005, 02:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Does anybody else think that the mods are seriously screwed up when they lock/edit so much innocent stuff, but leave this as is? Good stuff.
But, you guys are all making a big mistake. Just because he is a teenager it doesn't invalidate the intensity of his emotions. From my experience, in my slightly more emo days, telling someone that what they feel will pass and isn't real is the worst thing you can do. I can't express how depressed and helpless it is when you've having all these emotions and feelings and everyone around you says that they aren't real.
It is, in a word, maddening.
My advice to Lofung is to take it easy for a bit. Just try to chill and take a step back. You are probably feeling really crappy right now, but the key is to try to cope with what your body can throw at you.
This, of course, doesn't mean drugs/alcohol. These solutions are temporary. Your body's emotional structure isn't.
Try writing a bit. These writings don't have to be, and probably shouldn't, shown to anyone, just get it out of your system. It's like just dumping out your soul on paper. It gave me relief, anyway.
Go out, enjoy life a bit. See that there is more out there. Just chill. You'll be fine.
I'm with 404NotFound on this one (Numbers not found in other words.) Just cuz' someone is younger or whatever doesn't invalidate feelings or any such, and just saying 'brush it off, it was just puppy love' really, makes you sound like an ****, no offense. :/
<!--QuoteBegin-Khaim+Mar 18 2005, 09:50 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Khaim @ Mar 18 2005, 09:50 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I'm with 404NotFound on this one (Numbers not found in other words.) Just cuz' someone is younger or whatever doesn't invalidate feelings or any such, and just saying 'brush it off, it was just puppy love' really, makes you sound like an ****, no offense. :/ <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Can you honestly tell me that they don't have the rest of their lives to find a new partner? Sure it hurts for them, but it would be much more crushing at say 45 for example, especially if it was a 15 - 20 year relationship.
hey dude, look im like at the brink of break up rite now, i dont think ill ever get over it, cant sleep, cant eat, and getting jealous when she's hanging out with guy friends.
times like these i bury myself in a slightly unhealthy fashion but not as unhealthy as things that hurt ur body. i actually did my hw, and i buryed myself in games
if you want to get back together, dont act immediately. be casual. chat up with her online or seomthing, dont get upset or emo, then see how things flo
thats the best advice i can give you, good luck on all the rest
btw, suck most things up in a relationship tho, i truly realize that guys never wins <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I'll just say the best thing you can do for yourself is to focus on other things for a bit. Like Everwatchful mentioned, go do some other stuff, keep your mind off of it and let the best healer of all do it's thing, Time.
<!--QuoteBegin-neko?+Mar 18 2005, 06:35 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (neko? @ Mar 18 2005, 06:35 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have sex with her best friend. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> haha. well im pretty sure that will work out well.
i hated my last girlfriend... so flipping annoying... i had to hold the phone a foot away from my head so i wouldnt go deaf... she was ugly too... hell i wouldnt have even asked her out if her slut friends didnt pressure me into it (come up to me and say "WHY HAVENT YOU ASKED HER OUT YET?!" while shes STANDING RIGHT THERE).... dirty slut was lucky i didnt want to hurt her feelings...
<!--QuoteBegin-Ratonetwothreetwoone+Mar 19 2005, 02:28 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Ratonetwothreetwoone @ Mar 19 2005, 02:28 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> i hated my last girlfriend... so flipping annoying... i had to hold the phone a foot away from my head so i wouldnt go deaf... she was ugly too... hell i wouldnt have even asked her out if her slut friends didnt pressure me into it (come up to me and say "WHY HAVENT YOU ASKED HER OUT YET?!" while shes STANDING RIGHT THERE).... dirty slut was lucky i didnt want to hurt her feelings... <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> A mouth's a mouth!
Looks like my post on the second page is probably one of the most serious posts in this thread..
[/My thoughts] <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Yeah, this forums getting less and less serious all the time ... <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
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EDIT: Haha, wow.
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May I ask you why the **** it matters what label it has? The fact are as the OP wrote it.
Talking to another boy is not that big of a deal. If she's left you, fine, live and let live. If she truely has feeling for you, then she will come back. But, dude, never let something so small as her talking to someone more than you cause you to think that shes with someone else. Thats how relationships can fail and loose trust.
Just don't worry about it. Just take some time for yourself. Yea, having a chic can be great. Shoot, I do makeout sessions with mine to relax for tests (this one is the first good relationship ever...well, so far.).
Play lots of NS, drink, and have some fun. GET YOUR MIND OFF HER FOR A WHILE!!!
Talking to another boy is not that big of a deal. If she's left you, fine, live and let live. If she truely has feeling for you, then she will come back. But, dude, never let something so small as her talking to someone more than you cause you to think that shes with someone else. Thats how relationships can fail and loose trust.
Just don't worry about it. Just take some time for yourself. Yea, having a chic can be great. Shoot, I do makeout sessions with mine to relax for tests (this one is the first good relationship ever...well, so far.).
Play lots of NS, drink, and have some fun. GET YOUR MIND OFF HER FOR A WHILE!!! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
QFT fo' real <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
its not puppy love imo
met her for 2~3 years already,
been my girl for 9 months
and everything go worse these days......
cant lose her
or my public exam gonna crush =\ <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Yawnage get over it dude. You ain't even grow up yet, there's plenty more heartache out there waiting for you.
Short term fix = go out and get wasted then pull some slapper, rag her brains out then you'll feel much better.
BEST. COMMENT. EVER!
but no seriously, keep your head high, think things throught, dont rush into anything.
I know the pain, it aint nice.
/back to emo
You are biomass controled by hormons and electric impulses. Your body will get over it in no time as well as your mind once you find another person attracting you. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Faskalia FTW!
<!--QuoteBegin-Faskalia+Mar 18 2005, 08:59 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Faskalia @ Mar 18 2005, 08:59 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--><!--QuoteBegin-Snidely+Mar 18 2005, 08:57 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Snidely @ Mar 18 2005, 08:57 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-twoflow+Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (twoflow @ Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
There's nothing like furious masturbation to raise the ol' spirits. Or vodka.
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Going out also helps quite a bit.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Chances are he'll start crying into his drink, and all his mates will shuffle away from him. Probably not a good idea. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Tequila!<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
EW! no! yur gena make me vomit! Listen to ol Snidelyand twoflow, Vodka ftw.
And your life isnt going to end, honestly, you've probebly just had a hormone rise(aka horny) and now really feel like your further from your goal(need I explain it?).
I can almost forget that im reading the natural-selection forums, and reading grouphug.us instead.
and <!--QuoteBegin-twoflow+Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (twoflow @ Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> is definatly signature material
My mother once told me, that love is a mutual understanding of responsibility for one another and a binding contract of faith. I take that definition as incomplete, personally. But she knows only this at her age, how can you expect to know it at yours?
**EDIT** I better watch out, before CForrestor posts some sort of Home-made love potion recipe. Christ...
bottle of JD and a night out with your mates will do you good.
hold you friends close
Does anybody else think that the mods are seriously screwed up when they lock/edit so much innocent stuff, but leave this as is? Good stuff.
1. There are plenty of fish out there in the sea.
2. You'll be sleeping with the fishes(sp?)
...dunno why'd you might wanna sleep with fish but...meh its up to you.
Yes, this kid is a teenager.
Yes, he probably will find someone else.
But, you guys are all making a big mistake. Just because he is a teenager it doesn't invalidate the intensity of his emotions. From my experience, in my slightly more emo days, telling someone that what they feel will pass and isn't real is the worst thing you can do. I can't express how depressed and helpless it is when you've having all these emotions and feelings and everyone around you says that they aren't real.
It is, in a word, maddening.
My advice to Lofung is to take it easy for a bit. Just try to chill and take a step back. You are probably feeling really crappy right now, but the key is to try to cope with what your body can throw at you.
This, of course, doesn't mean drugs/alcohol. These solutions are temporary. Your body's emotional structure isn't.
Try writing a bit. These writings don't have to be, and probably shouldn't, shown to anyone, just get it out of your system. It's like just dumping out your soul on paper. It gave me relief, anyway.
Go out, enjoy life a bit. See that there is more out there. Just chill. You'll be fine.
Can you honestly tell me that they don't have the rest of their lives to find a new partner? Sure it hurts for them, but it would be much more crushing at say 45 for example, especially if it was a 15 - 20 year relationship.
Thank you. *mutters and wanders off to sleep*
times like these i bury myself in a slightly unhealthy fashion but not as unhealthy as things that hurt ur body. i actually did my hw, and i buryed myself in games
if you want to get back together, dont act immediately. be casual. chat up with her online or seomthing, dont get upset or emo, then see how things flo
thats the best advice i can give you, good luck on all the rest
btw, suck most things up in a relationship tho, i truly realize that guys never wins <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
haha. well im pretty sure that will work out well.
A mouth's a mouth!
Looks like my post on the second page is probably one of the most serious posts in this thread..
[/My thoughts]
Looks like my post on the second page is probably one of the most serious posts in this thread..
[/My thoughts] <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Yeah, this forums getting less and less serious all the time ... <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->