I Have Just Lost My First Girl

LofungLofung Join Date: 2004-08-21 Member: 30757Members
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<div class="IPBDescription">:(</div> so desperate <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
my first love
and i want her back, standing by me once more
anyone suggestions >____________<?
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  • twoflowtwoflow Singing Drunk Join Date: 2002-11-01 Member: 1950Members, Constellation
    Have a wank.
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  • MedHeadMedHead Join Date: 2002-12-19 Member: 11115Members, Constellation
    How old are you? If you're under 18, get over it. It was likely just puppy love. You'll survive.
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  • Owen1Owen1 Join Date: 2003-04-13 Member: 15457Members
    give us more information on what happened to split you up with your girlfriend and we might be able to help. I can say this though, if it was your doing, swallow your pride if she means that much to you that you're helpless without her
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  • SloppyKissesSloppyKisses omgawd a furreh&#33; Virginia Join Date: 2003-07-05 Member: 17942Members, Constellation
    edited March 2005
    <!--QuoteBegin-MedHead+Mar 18 2005, 11:07 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (MedHead @ Mar 18 2005, 11:07 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> How old are you? If you're under 18, get over it. It was likely just puppy love. You'll survive. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Not true, I went out with a girl for 3 years and I'm now 18, started dating her when I was 15, and we recently broke up, only girl i ever loved out of a pretty few girls i dated inbetween. Yes we split up on and off... we had our differences, but even with those differences I loved her to death..


    Im still trying sooo hard to move on, and I am, but just very very slowly. I'd do anything to have her back, but when I look at her, she has totally changed, she isnt the person I fell in love with when I was 15... So yeh, I'll live too your right, but not without hurting for along while.
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  • LofungLofung Join Date: 2004-08-21 Member: 30757Members
    17.
    its not puppy love imo
    met her for 2~3 years already,
    been my girl for 9 months
    and everything go worse these days......

    cant lose her
    or my public exam gonna crush =\
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  • SloppyKissesSloppyKisses omgawd a furreh&#33; Virginia Join Date: 2003-07-05 Member: 17942Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-Lofung+Mar 18 2005, 11:09 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Lofung @ Mar 18 2005, 11:09 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> 17.
    its not puppy love imo
    met her for 2~3 years already,
    been my girl for 9 months
    and everything go worse these days......

    cant lose her
    or my public exam gonna crush =\ <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    tell us more info, why did yall break up? post her side of the story and your side of the story of why yall split up and maybe we will actually be able to help
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  • MedHeadMedHead Join Date: 2002-12-19 Member: 11115Members, Constellation
    edited March 2005
    Most teens think they're in love, think they're going to die when they lose that love, but look back and realize how shallow that love really was. No offense, but if it was true love, you'd still be together.

    EDIT: Haha, wow.

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  • kidakida Join Date: 2003-02-20 Member: 13778Members
    find her again, or get a new one.

    there is not much we can do with that kind of information.
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  • SloppyKissesSloppyKisses omgawd a furreh&#33; Virginia Join Date: 2003-07-05 Member: 17942Members, Constellation
    edited March 2005
    <!--QuoteBegin-MedHead+Mar 18 2005, 11:12 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (MedHead @ Mar 18 2005, 11:12 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Most teens think they're in love, think they're going to die when they lose that love, but look back and realize how shallow that love really was. No offense, but if it was true love, you'd still be together. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    If your refering to me thats not true at all.


    people change, as they age and get differenct personalities and lifestyles, the type of lifestyle mine is to hers, I didnt want to deal with it. I didnt want to be dragged into that sort of life style, and her, seeing I smoke pot ect... she didnt wnat to get dragged into my lifestyle... as we got older our differences got worse and worse, and we just changed, we still do love eachother, but we arent compatible anymore and neither of us at the moment have the time to try and become recompatible its better we split our own ways.

    edit: in a sense it was shallow ( now ) but then and still now we love eachother. Ill get over it for sure, just healing takes time.
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  • MedHeadMedHead Join Date: 2002-12-19 Member: 11115Members, Constellation
    I think you just proved my point, Phur.
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  • AbraAbra Would you kindly Join Date: 2003-08-17 Member: 19870Members
    edited March 2005
    Where did you loose her? shes not a set of carkeys is she?




    this isnt the place for asking that question... the NET isnt the place to ask that question... we don't know you, or her - we can't list a easy-to-use step-by-step guide for you to follow to get her back...

    but... iam sorry for you,
    Love hurts.
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  • FaskaliaFaskalia Wechsellichtzeichenanlage Join Date: 2004-09-12 Member: 31651Members, Constellation
    There is no such thing as love.

    You are biomass controled by hormons and electric impulses. Your body will get over it in no time as well as your mind once you find another person attracting you.
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  • SloppyKissesSloppyKisses omgawd a furreh&#33; Virginia Join Date: 2003-07-05 Member: 17942Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-MedHead+Mar 18 2005, 11:16 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (MedHead @ Mar 18 2005, 11:16 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I think you just proved my point, Phur. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> we still are in love just arent a good match though the feelings are still there...

    granted that shouldnt keep us apart, it still is because we wouldnt be happy.. You can love someone and not be happy trust me I know.

    My mother was in a abusive relationship, she loved my father to death, but she wasnt happy.
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  • PRTePRTe Join Date: 2003-10-25 Member: 21919Members
    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->10 User(s) are reading this topic (0 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
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    dude this is precisely the kind of topic that makes the off-topic forums so interesting <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->

    i think you will get over it and later on in life realize how stupid the whole thing was (assuming you get past your exams first).
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  • LofungLofung Join Date: 2004-08-21 Member: 30757Members
    somedays before, i phoned her and talked about our relationship. i spent my time with her and i gave presents on birthdays, share hearts... and i got nothing inreturn, not even a birthday present, or even "happy birthday". i found she always talking with another boy, though i know that they are definity not in love (that boy is my friend.) but it really make me jealous when i found she chatting more to him than me, then i started to question that...if she really loved me. later... whatever... surprising to hear the reason why she come to me from her mouth, "just try if i love you =\". Yesterday, i lost my temper, made her ran away =\
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  • SloppyKissesSloppyKisses omgawd a furreh&#33; Virginia Join Date: 2003-07-05 Member: 17942Members, Constellation
    edited March 2005
    <!--QuoteBegin-Lofung+Mar 18 2005, 11:20 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Lofung @ Mar 18 2005, 11:20 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> somedays before, i phoned her and talked about our relationship. i spent my time with her and i gave presents on birthdays, share hearts... and i got nothing inreturn, not even a birthday present, or even "happy birthday". i found she always talking with another boy, though i know that they are definity not in love (that boy is my friend.) but it really make me jealous when i found she chatting more to him than me, then i started to question that...if she really loved me. later... whatever... surprising to hear the reason why she come to me from her mouth, "just try if i love you =\". Yesterday, i lost my temper, made her ran away =\ <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    If your insecure and cant trust your own gf you dont need to date a girl at all.. Honestly grow up with your childish insecurities..

    It will get you no where if you get jealous of pety crap like that and ruin a relationship, afterall relationships are based on trust amoung other high select things
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  • GrendelGrendel All that is fear... Join Date: 2002-07-19 Member: 970Members, NS1 Playtester, Contributor, NS2 Playtester
    Stay alert, trust no one, keep your lazer handy.

    Seriously though, just learn from it and move on.
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  • kidakida Join Date: 2003-02-20 Member: 13778Members
    edited March 2005
    (y)
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  • twoflowtwoflow Singing Drunk Join Date: 2002-11-01 Member: 1950Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-kida+Mar 18 2005, 04:26 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (kida @ Mar 18 2005, 04:26 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> please try to improve your grammar. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Location: Hong Kong, China

    Seriously, just have one. You'll feel much better.
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  • FaskaliaFaskalia Wechsellichtzeichenanlage Join Date: 2004-09-12 Member: 31651Members, Constellation
    edited March 2005
    <!--QuoteBegin-Lofung+Mar 18 2005, 06:20 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Lofung @ Mar 18 2005, 06:20 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> somedays before, i phoned her and talked about our relationship. i spent my time with her and i gave presents on birthdays, share hearts... and i got nothing inreturn, not even a birthday present, or even "happy birthday". i found she always talking with another boy, though i know that they are definity not in love (that boy is my friend.) but it really make me jealous when i found she chatting more to him than me, then i started to question that...if she really loved me. later... whatever... surprising to hear the reason why she come to me from her mouth, "just try if i love you =\". Yesterday, i lost my temper, made her ran away =\ <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    If you give and expect anything in return you only cheat yourself.
    A present should show that you appreciate a person and should not force said person to buy you a present in return.


    edit: grammar
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  • ThaldarinThaldarin Alonzi&#33; Join Date: 2003-07-15 Member: 18173Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-Lofung+Mar 18 2005, 04:20 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Lofung @ Mar 18 2005, 04:20 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> somedays before, i phoned her and talked about our relationship. i spent my time with her and i gave presents on birthdays, share hearts... and i got nothing inreturn, not even a birthday present, or even "happy birthday". i found she always talking with another boy, though i know that they are definity not in love (that boy is my friend.) but it really make me jealous when i found she chatting more to him than me, then i started to question that...if she really loved me. later... whatever... surprising to hear the reason why she come to me from her mouth, "just try if i love you =\". Yesterday, i lost my temper, made her ran away =\ <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    If you love her would you get jealous? My girlfriend's friends seem to be 90% guys, and my friends seem to be 90% girls. We'd be seriously screwed if one another got jealous because we're always hanging or talking to the opposite sex.

    Although people speak the truth, move on. Go out, get hammered (assuming you drink alcohol) and have a few one night stands. Oh and don't forget to be careful <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
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  • SloppyKissesSloppyKisses omgawd a furreh&#33; Virginia Join Date: 2003-07-05 Member: 17942Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-Thaldarin+Mar 18 2005, 11:33 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Thaldarin @ Mar 18 2005, 11:33 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Lofung+Mar 18 2005, 04:20 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Lofung @ Mar 18 2005, 04:20 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> somedays before, i phoned her and talked about our relationship. i spent my time with her and i gave presents on birthdays, share hearts... and i got nothing inreturn, not even a birthday present, or even "happy birthday". i found she always talking with another boy, though i know that they are definity not in love (that boy is my friend.) but it really make me jealous when i found she chatting more to him than me, then i started to question that...if she really loved me. later... whatever... surprising to hear the reason why she come to me from her mouth, "just try if i love you =\". Yesterday, i lost my temper, made her ran away =\ <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    If you love her would you get jealous? My girlfriend's friends seem to be 90% guys, and my friends seem to be 90% girls. We'd be seriously screwed if one another got jealous because we're always hanging or talking to the opposite sex.

    Although people speak the truth, move on. Go out, get hammered (assuming you drink alcohol) and have a few one night stands. Oh and don't forget to be careful <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    lol yeh seriously :/
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  • LofungLofung Join Date: 2004-08-21 Member: 30757Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Phur Instinkt+Mar 19 2005, 12:36 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Phur Instinkt @ Mar 19 2005, 12:36 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Thaldarin+Mar 18 2005, 11:33 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Thaldarin @ Mar 18 2005, 11:33 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Lofung+Mar 18 2005, 04:20 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Lofung @ Mar 18 2005, 04:20 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> somedays before, i phoned her and talked about our relationship. i spent my time with her and i gave presents on birthdays, share hearts... and i got nothing inreturn, not even a birthday present, or even "happy birthday". i found she always talking with another boy, though i know that they are definity not in love (that boy is my friend.) but it really make me jealous when i found she chatting more to him than me, then i started to question that...if she really loved me. later... whatever... surprising to hear the reason why she come to me from her mouth, "just try if i love you =\". Yesterday, i lost my temper, made her ran away =\ <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    If you love her would you get jealous? My girlfriend's friends seem to be 90% guys, and my friends seem to be 90% girls. We'd be seriously screwed if one another got jealous because we're always hanging or talking to the opposite sex.

    Although people speak the truth, move on. Go out, get hammered (assuming you drink alcohol) and have a few one night stands. Oh and don't forget to be careful <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    lol yeh seriously :/ <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    i am not legally allowed to drink...but i think i gonna be one right now =\
    thanks all anyway
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  • TequilaTequila Join Date: 2003-08-13 Member: 19660Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-twoflow+Mar 18 2005, 05:06 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (twoflow @ Mar 18 2005, 05:06 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    x2.
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  • SinSpawnSinSpawn Harbinger of Suffering Join Date: 2002-11-12 Member: 8359Members
    edited March 2005
    Toughen up man...and your supposed to represent one of the 'male' population!
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  • CyndaneCyndane Join Date: 2003-11-15 Member: 22913Members
    Hehe.. hong kong has to have some of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen.

    Its fairly easy to see why you thought you were in love.

    Take the advice and <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    Going out also helps quite a bit.
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  • DeathKnightDeathKnight Join Date: 2004-05-11 Member: 28607Members
    Like others have said, if you could not handle the relationship without some form of jealousy, then it should not have happened. I felt sorry for you, but when you mentioned why you broke up it turned into pity. You should control your jealousies.
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  • OrganoXOrganoX Join Date: 2004-03-21 Member: 27473Members
    Tip:<ul><li>Try not think about it.</li><li>Meet your friends.</li><li>Share your feelings (in real life).</li><li>Think possitive.</li><li>She was your first girl, but who said that she is the last one?</li><li>Dont think on the past, think forward.</li><li>Try not to be alone, like sitting near your computer, you will get even more depressed.</li></ul>
    Take the time you need, it will take a while to get over it.
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  • SnidelySnidely Join Date: 2003-02-04 Member: 13098Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-twoflow+Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (twoflow @ Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    There's nothing like furious masturbation to raise the ol' spirits. Or vodka.

    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Going out also helps quite a bit.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Chances are he'll start crying into his drink, and all his mates will shuffle away from him. Probably not a good idea.
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  • FaskaliaFaskalia Wechsellichtzeichenanlage Join Date: 2004-09-12 Member: 31651Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-Snidely+Mar 18 2005, 08:57 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Snidely @ Mar 18 2005, 08:57 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-twoflow+Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (twoflow @ Mar 18 2005, 11:06 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Have a wank. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    There's nothing like furious masturbation to raise the ol' spirits. Or vodka.

    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Going out also helps quite a bit.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Chances are he'll start crying into his drink, and all his mates will shuffle away from him. Probably not a good idea. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Tequila!
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