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Quaunaut
The longest seven days in history... Join Date: 2003-03-21 Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
The longest seven days in history... Join Date: 2003-03-21 Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
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<div class="IPBDescription">With the Girl of My Dreams.</div> This girl is AMAZING.
Her personality is just the best I have ever met in a person. Out of every person I've ever met, she is just the nicest, modestest(?), funny, and just plain great person to be around. She also has the one thing that so far all the women I've gone for didn't- she shares our love of Christ above all.
Her looks are just as amazing as her personality. She is Indonesian primarily(35%- other than that, tons of others really small)- and she is drop dead gorgeous. As I compared to my clanmates last night- Tyra Banks has nothin on this girl. Jennifer Lopez- nothin. Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Paris Hilton- I have never seen a girl THIS good looking, yet dresses so modestly, and unprovocotive, yet can make any man drool over her even so. AND SHE'S NOT OBSESSED WITH FASHION EITHER! Its her own style she likes <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Then, all our interests are just about the same- Anime, Games, Romance, and generalized Physical activity(she likes to play Soccer- I like what I've learned so far in the martial arts. Note: I'm teaching myself, with a dojo making sure I do it right. I'm devving my own style, but thats for a thread all its own).
And after knowing her for over a year now- I finally got lucky enough to end up ALONE WITH HER FOR 4 HOURS! Heres to hoping and praying that I can do it right.
Now, I didn't post this just to brag. I wanted to ask: Any advice for a girl like this? Any advice for women in general? Gift ideas? It doesn't matter when you post about it- it'll be put to good use in weeks to come.
And note: She isn't my girlfriend YET. Hopefully(I'm praying harder for this than anything in my entire life) she will be one day.
Her personality is just the best I have ever met in a person. Out of every person I've ever met, she is just the nicest, modestest(?), funny, and just plain great person to be around. She also has the one thing that so far all the women I've gone for didn't- she shares our love of Christ above all.
Her looks are just as amazing as her personality. She is Indonesian primarily(35%- other than that, tons of others really small)- and she is drop dead gorgeous. As I compared to my clanmates last night- Tyra Banks has nothin on this girl. Jennifer Lopez- nothin. Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Paris Hilton- I have never seen a girl THIS good looking, yet dresses so modestly, and unprovocotive, yet can make any man drool over her even so. AND SHE'S NOT OBSESSED WITH FASHION EITHER! Its her own style she likes <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Then, all our interests are just about the same- Anime, Games, Romance, and generalized Physical activity(she likes to play Soccer- I like what I've learned so far in the martial arts. Note: I'm teaching myself, with a dojo making sure I do it right. I'm devving my own style, but thats for a thread all its own).
And after knowing her for over a year now- I finally got lucky enough to end up ALONE WITH HER FOR 4 HOURS! Heres to hoping and praying that I can do it right.
Now, I didn't post this just to brag. I wanted to ask: Any advice for a girl like this? Any advice for women in general? Gift ideas? It doesn't matter when you post about it- it'll be put to good use in weeks to come.
And note: She isn't my girlfriend YET. Hopefully(I'm praying harder for this than anything in my entire life) she will be one day.
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Well, if that wasn't just pointless.
But I do plan on letting her know today, if I feel a certain point is the right time.
It's not that simple you know.
Not <i>everyone</i> can just go up to someone and ask, just like that.
It would take me weeks to build up to it :/
P.S. you spelt 'her' wrong <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
It's not that simple you know.
Not <i>everyone</i> can just go up to someone and ask, just like that.
It would take me weeks to build up to it :/
P.S. you spelt 'her' wrong <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
i was assuming he already worked up the nerve
sry <!--emo&::nerdy::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/nerd.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='nerd.gif' /><!--endemo-->
That's all the advice I have to give <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Be yourself. Seriously. If you're the type of guy who would make a big deal about telling her that you like her, do it. If you're the type of guy who would just be casual and ask her on date, do that. It's rude to the girl if you try to be someone you're not. Every woman likes something different, and the relationship will only end in hurt if you act like someone you're not to "get" her.
EDIT: We'll also be expecting a full report (with pictures <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo--> )
Do your best to keep your nervousness to a minimum. Don't babble or fidget too much. It is OK to have a moment or two of silence - don't worry!... Though, being a little nervous is okay and may work to your advantage - it's kind of cute (and potentially attractive) when a guy is nervous in front of a gal.
Have fun and good luck!
take it easy.
be yourself, sure, but don't come across to her like she's the meaning of life, the pinnacle of feminine beauty, your one and only and your greatest treasure all combined.
if she's as mellow and independent-thinking and cool as you say, she won't appreciate someone who's clingy and overattentive.
be sweet, not obsessed.
be kind, not obsessed.
be generous, not obsessed.
be clever, not obsessed.
for relatively-newbies like yourself, there is NO way to emphasize this enough, but i'll do my best.
<b><u><span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'>SETTLE DOWN.</u></b></span>
Don't make the mistake that so many previous posters have done, and freak out about a girl.
<span style='font-family:Impact'><span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'>LEVEL UP!</span></span>
What, you forgot the most important stat of all... CHARISMA!!
Yeah, just be yourself. Thats about it.
As for me, I found out that a little bit of alcohol to take the edge off helps with talking to the ladies, but thats just me because I am an alcoholic...
*slap self* Bad Burr, giving bad advice!
.....
<--- Goes back to drinking
If you're too scared/nervous, just see if you can get her alone a few more times. Say you'd like to hang out with her more often and if you guys do, I'm sure some sort of relationship will build up.
Goodluck <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
take it easy.
be yourself, sure, but don't come across to her like she's the meaning of life, the pinnacle of feminine beauty, your one and only and your greatest treasure all combined.
if she's as mellow and independent-thinking and cool as you say, she won't appreciate someone who's clingy and overattentive.
be sweet, not obsessed.
be kind, not obsessed.
be generous, not obsessed.
be clever, not obsessed.
for relatively-newbies like yourself, there is NO way to emphasize this enough, but i'll do my best.
<b><u><span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'>SETTLE DOWN.</u></b></span> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
This coming from the guy traveling to Europe to visit the girl of his dreams <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
*BONK*
Dude, if you want a woman you've gotta work for it, not pray for it!
<!--emo&::asrifle::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/asrifle.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='asrifle.gif' /><!--endemo--> <--- Like this guy. He probably has a woman.
Other than that, don't treat her like this is your last chance at love/happiness/relationships/sex and you'll be fine. Treat her like a human, not an object of desire. Good luck! <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Pwned <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Pwned <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.natural-selection.org/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
<span style='color:white'>Be nice.</span>
to elaborate for quaunaut and ripzaw and skyhigh: you're allowed to go batshlt crazy for a girl if you're guaranteed good lovin. ;3