I Get To Spend A Minimum Of 4 Hours Today

QuaunautQuaunaut The longest seven days in history... Join Date: 2003-03-21 Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
<div class="IPBDescription">With the Girl of My Dreams.</div> This girl is AMAZING.

Her personality is just the best I have ever met in a person. Out of every person I've ever met, she is just the nicest, modestest(?), funny, and just plain great person to be around. She also has the one thing that so far all the women I've gone for didn't- she shares our love of Christ above all.

Her looks are just as amazing as her personality. She is Indonesian primarily(35%- other than that, tons of others really small)- and she is drop dead gorgeous. As I compared to my clanmates last night- Tyra Banks has nothin on this girl. Jennifer Lopez- nothin. Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Paris Hilton- I have never seen a girl THIS good looking, yet dresses so modestly, and unprovocotive, yet can make any man drool over her even so. AND SHE'S NOT OBSESSED WITH FASHION EITHER! Its her own style she likes <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->

Then, all our interests are just about the same- Anime, Games, Romance, and generalized Physical activity(she likes to play Soccer- I like what I've learned so far in the martial arts. Note: I'm teaching myself, with a dojo making sure I do it right. I'm devving my own style, but thats for a thread all its own).

And after knowing her for over a year now- I finally got lucky enough to end up ALONE WITH HER FOR 4 HOURS! Heres to hoping and praying that I can do it right.

Now, I didn't post this just to brag. I wanted to ask: Any advice for a girl like this? Any advice for women in general? Gift ideas? It doesn't matter when you post about it- it'll be put to good use in weeks to come.

And note: She isn't my girlfriend YET. Hopefully(I'm praying harder for this than anything in my entire life) she will be one day.
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  • AlcapwnAlcapwn &quot;War is the science of destruction&quot; - John Abbot Join Date: 2003-06-21 Member: 17590Members
    ask here to go out with you
  • QuaunautQuaunaut The longest seven days in history... Join Date: 2003-03-21 Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
    <!--QuoteBegin-h20+Jun 25 2004, 09:54 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (h20 @ Jun 25 2004, 09:54 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> ask here to go out with you <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Well, if that wasn't just pointless.

    But I do plan on letting her know today, if I feel a certain point is the right time.
  • raz0rraz0r Join Date: 2003-07-24 Member: 18395Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-h20+Jun 25 2004, 05:54 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (h20 @ Jun 25 2004, 05:54 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> ask here to go out with you <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    It's not that simple you know.
    Not <i>everyone</i> can just go up to someone and ask, just like that.
    It would take me weeks to build up to it :/

    P.S. you spelt 'her' wrong <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • AlcapwnAlcapwn &quot;War is the science of destruction&quot; - John Abbot Join Date: 2003-06-21 Member: 17590Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-raz0r+Jun 25 2004, 12:04 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (raz0r @ Jun 25 2004, 12:04 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-h20+Jun 25 2004, 05:54 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (h20 @ Jun 25 2004, 05:54 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> ask here to go out with you <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    It's not that simple you know.
    Not <i>everyone</i> can just go up to someone and ask, just like that.
    It would take me weeks to build up to it :/

    P.S. you spelt 'her' wrong <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    i was assuming he already worked up the nerve



    sry <!--emo&::nerdy::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/nerd.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='nerd.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • SkySky Join Date: 2004-04-23 Member: 28131Members
    "most modest"

    That's all the advice I have to give <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • CForresterCForrester P0rk(h0p Join Date: 2002-10-05 Member: 1439Members, Constellation
    There is no universal advice for women other than this:

    Be yourself. Seriously. If you're the type of guy who would make a big deal about telling her that you like her, do it. If you're the type of guy who would just be casual and ask her on date, do that. It's rude to the girl if you try to be someone you're not. Every woman likes something different, and the relationship will only end in hurt if you act like someone you're not to "get" her.
  • SpoogeSpooge Thunderbolt missile in your cheerios Join Date: 2002-01-25 Member: 67Members
    edited June 2004
    Well, you're going to be alone with her. That means it's the right time. The trick is, and I do know this first hand, don't go all gushy and "waterfall of lovey-dovey girl-of-my-dreams gaga" right away. Stay cool. Give her an off-hand, "I'm really having the best time hanging out with you" or "I'm really looking forward to (insert reason why you're alone with her for 4 hours) because we get to hang out together". If she doesn't bite right away, DON'T FREAK OUT!. Stay cool. Keep it light-hearted but straight-forward. Remember, there's always a good possibility that she's having the exact same reaction as you. The difference is, she will be ten times better at hiding it.

    EDIT: We'll also be expecting a full report (with pictures <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo--> )
  • GrayDuckGrayDuck Join Date: 2003-05-08 Member: 16134Members, Constellation
    My best advise - be yourself - you want her to like YOU, so don't try to be something you're not.

    Do your best to keep your nervousness to a minimum. Don't babble or fidget too much. It is OK to have a moment or two of silence - don't worry!... Though, being a little nervous is okay and may work to your advantage - it's kind of cute (and potentially attractive) when a guy is nervous in front of a gal.

    Have fun and good luck!
  • EpidemicEpidemic Dark Force Gorge Join Date: 2003-06-29 Member: 17781Members
    Woot, someone got it bad.. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • jumpingjodajumpingjoda Join Date: 2003-12-14 Member: 24367Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
    I wish you best luck and a great time with her, just relax <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo--> .
  • antichristantichrist Join Date: 2003-05-27 Member: 16769Members
    Try and make her a plush gorge <!--emo&::gorge::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/pudgy.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='pudgy.gif' /><!--endemo--> any girl would want you then! <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • ZigZig ...I am Captain Planet&#33; Join Date: 2002-10-23 Member: 1576Members
    edited June 2004
    my advice: <b>settle down</b>.

    take it easy.

    be yourself, sure, but don't come across to her like she's the meaning of life, the pinnacle of feminine beauty, your one and only and your greatest treasure all combined.

    if she's as mellow and independent-thinking and cool as you say, she won't appreciate someone who's clingy and overattentive.

    be sweet, not obsessed.

    be kind, not obsessed.

    be generous, not obsessed.

    be clever, not obsessed.

    for relatively-newbies like yourself, there is NO way to emphasize this enough, but i'll do my best.

    <b><u><span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'>SETTLE DOWN.</u></b></span>
  • pardzhpardzh Join Date: 2002-10-25 Member: 1601Members
    How long have you known her?
  • MedHeadMedHead Join Date: 2002-12-19 Member: 11115Members, Constellation
    Oh great... here we go again... more girl issues.

    Don't make the mistake that so many previous posters have done, and freak out about a girl.
  • ZigZig ...I am Captain Planet&#33; Join Date: 2002-10-23 Member: 1576Members
    find out what kinda music you both like. i love rhapsody but with my girlfriend i'd probably lay on something mellow like slow sinatra.
  • TestamentTestament Join Date: 2002-11-02 Member: 4037Members
    edited June 2004
    <span style='color:white'>Oh, I get it. Ridiculing a member because he goes through something we've all had to live through. Ha. Ha. Ha.</span>
  • ConfuzorConfuzor Join Date: 2002-11-01 Member: 2412Awaiting Authorization
    I'm sure all the date simulation games will provide adequate knowledge on proper etiquette for your upcoming date.


    <span style='font-family:Impact'><span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'>LEVEL UP!</span></span>
  • ZigZig ...I am Captain Planet&#33; Join Date: 2002-10-23 Member: 1576Members
    boost your STR, INT, and COOL stats!
  • BurrBurr Join Date: 2002-11-19 Member: 9358Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Zig+Jun 25 2004, 02:31 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Zig @ Jun 25 2004, 02:31 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> boost your STR, INT, and COOL stats! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    What, you forgot the most important stat of all... CHARISMA!!

    Yeah, just be yourself. Thats about it.

    As for me, I found out that a little bit of alcohol to take the edge off helps with talking to the ladies, but thats just me because I am an alcoholic...

    *slap self* Bad Burr, giving bad advice!

    .....

    <--- Goes back to drinking
  • RipzawRipzaw Join Date: 2004-05-09 Member: 28560Members
    Chocolate? Don't say "I bought you some chocolate"... Go "I got some chocolates here... Want one?"... All I know about this subject... I'm a sad loser with no life <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/confused.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--emo&::nerdy::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/nerd.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='nerd.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • MulletMullet Join Date: 2003-04-28 Member: 15910Members, Constellation
    If your alone with her for 4 hours, I'd say tell her exactly how you feel about her. If shes as nice/modest/etc as you say she is, she probably will be able to handle it maturely.

    If you're too scared/nervous, just see if you can get her alone a few more times. Say you'd like to hang out with her more often and if you guys do, I'm sure some sort of relationship will build up.

    Goodluck <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • SkySky Join Date: 2004-04-23 Member: 28131Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Zig+Jun 25 2004, 02:11 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Zig @ Jun 25 2004, 02:11 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> my advice: <b>settle down</b>.

    take it easy.

    be yourself, sure, but don't come across to her like she's the meaning of life, the pinnacle of feminine beauty, your one and only and your greatest treasure all combined.

    if she's as mellow and independent-thinking and cool as you say, she won't appreciate someone who's clingy and overattentive.

    be sweet, not obsessed.

    be kind, not obsessed.

    be generous, not obsessed.

    be clever, not obsessed.

    for relatively-newbies like yourself, there is NO way to emphasize this enough, but i'll do my best.

    <b><u><span style='font-size:21pt;line-height:100%'>SETTLE DOWN.</u></b></span> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    This coming from the guy traveling to Europe to visit the girl of his dreams <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • BlobbyBlobby Join Date: 2004-06-11 Member: 29234Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 25 2004, 11:52 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 25 2004, 11:52 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> (I'm praying harder for this than anything in my entire life) <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    *BONK*

    Dude, if you want a woman you've gotta work for it, not pray for it!

    <!--emo&::asrifle::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/asrifle.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='asrifle.gif' /><!--endemo--> <--- Like this guy. He probably has a woman.

    Other than that, don't treat her like this is your last chance at love/happiness/relationships/sex and you'll be fine. Treat her like a human, not an object of desire. Good luck! <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • RipzawRipzaw Join Date: 2004-05-09 Member: 28560Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-5kyh16h91+Jun 25 2004, 04:37 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (5kyh16h91 @ Jun 25 2004, 04:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> This coming from the guy traveling to Europe to visit the girl of his dreams <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Pwned <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • BirdyBirdy Join Date: 2003-05-29 Member: 16825Members, Constellation
    Ask her if she likes black metal.
  • ZigZig ...I am Captain Planet&#33; Join Date: 2002-10-23 Member: 1576Members
    edited June 2004
    <!--QuoteBegin--Ripzaw-+Jun 25 2004, 01:44 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (-Ripzaw- @ Jun 25 2004, 01:44 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-5kyh16h91+Jun 25 2004, 04:37 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (5kyh16h91 @ Jun 25 2004, 04:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> This coming from the guy traveling to Europe to visit the girl of his dreams  <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.natural-selection.org/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Pwned <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.natural-selection.org/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    <span style='color:white'>Be nice.</span>

    to elaborate for quaunaut and ripzaw and skyhigh: you're allowed to go batshlt crazy for a girl if you're guaranteed good lovin. ;3
  • DragonMechDragonMech Join Date: 2003-09-19 Member: 21023Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
    Well Quananut, I'l give you the same thing I give every one of my love-stricken friends: my best wishes. *raises glass* Cheers to true love in the making.
  • RobRob Unknown Enemy Join Date: 2002-01-24 Member: 25Members, NS1 Playtester
    Even if you did just post to brag. When you have something exciting going on (in this case perhaps double meaning on that word) you want to tell someone. We're here to share your good fortune with you, mate!
  • ChronoChrono Local flyboy Join Date: 2003-08-05 Member: 18989Members
  • MulletMullet Join Date: 2003-04-28 Member: 15910Members, Constellation
    <!--emo&::marine::--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/marine.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='marine.gif' /><!--endemo-->
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