<!--QuoteBegin-Killymagee+Jun 25 2004, 07:25 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Killymagee @ Jun 25 2004, 07:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Post a picture of her please, so we can Ridicule. hehe <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> "oh, um, hi, can I take a picture of you so I can show all my internet buddies how hot you are? What do you mean I'm a creep? I just want to get some good advice on weather or not I should date you from a bunch of guys who play video games all day. Whats wrong with that?"
you want funny pictures of people? <a href='http://www.somethingawful.com/cliff/ihateyou/' target='_blank'>http://www.somethingawful.com/cliff/ihateyou/</a>
Speaking as a nerd with a GF of about 20 months the best advice I can give is as folows: <ul><li>Relax,</li><li>Make sure you feel comfortable,</li><li>Laugh a bit,</li><li>(Not too much),</li><li>Find something to do you both enjoy,</li><li>(Not that...),</li><li>Failing that, raise a topic of discussion you know will last a while and will reveal a lot about eachother to eachother,</li><li>Be NICE, that means opening doors and not farting too loudly, not groveling at her feet with a mouthfull of flowers,</li><li>Don't act "cool", acting cool always comes accross as loserish unless you're The Fonz,</li><li>If at all possible, make friends with her friends too, gives them something to talk about behind your back. ^_^</li></ul> --Scythe--
<!--QuoteBegin-Zig+Jun 25 2004, 05:27 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Zig @ Jun 25 2004, 05:27 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--><!--QuoteBegin--Ripzaw-+Jun 25 2004, 01:44 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (-Ripzaw- @ Jun 25 2004, 01:44 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-5kyh16h91+Jun 25 2004, 04:37 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (5kyh16h91 @ Jun 25 2004, 04:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> This coming from the guy traveling to Europe to visit the girl of his dreams <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Pwned <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> we're a couple you ridiculous noobs.
pwned.
to elaborate for quaunaut and ripzaw and skyhigh: you're allowed to go batshlt crazy for a girl if you're guaranteed good lovin. ;3<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
See the <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> ? Means "I'm kidding". Joking. Funny. Har-har.
<!--QuoteBegin-Zig+Jun 25 2004, 07:08 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Zig @ Jun 25 2004, 07:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> i see your har har and raise you a lollerskate. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> ooo highloller well i raise you a roflcopter
antifreezeThe guy with the goods!Join Date: 2003-05-12Member: 16232Members, Constellation
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 25 2004, 05:52 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 25 2004, 05:52 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> This girl is AMAZING.
Her personality is just the best I have ever met in a person. Out of every person I've ever met, she is just the nicest, modestest(?), funny, and just plain great person to be around. She also has the one thing that so far all the women I've gone for didn't- she shares our love of Christ above all.
Her looks are just as amazing as her personality. She is Indonesian primarily(35%- other than that, tons of others really small)- and she is drop dead gorgeous. As I compared to my clanmates last night- Tyra Banks has nothin on this girl. Jennifer Lopez- nothin. Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Paris Hilton- I have never seen a girl THIS good looking, yet dresses so modestly, and unprovocotive, yet can make any man drool over her even so. AND SHE'S NOT OBSESSED WITH FASHION EITHER! Its her own style she likes <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Then, all our interests are just about the same- Anime, Games, Romance, and generalized Physical activity(she likes to play Soccer- I like what I've learned so far in the martial arts. Note: I'm teaching myself, with a dojo making sure I do it right. I'm devving my own style, but thats for a thread all its own).
And after knowing her for over a year now- I finally got lucky enough to end up ALONE WITH HER FOR 4 HOURS! Heres to hoping and praying that I can do it right.
Now, I didn't post this just to brag. I wanted to ask: Any advice for a girl like this? Any advice for women in general? Gift ideas? It doesn't matter when you post about it- it'll be put to good use in weeks to come.
And note: She isn't my girlfriend YET. Hopefully(I'm praying harder for this than anything in my entire life) she will be one day. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Similar problem for me, although not quite the same...
Zig...I am Captain Planet!Join Date: 2002-10-23Member: 1576Members
<!--QuoteBegin-chrono5454+Jun 25 2004, 06:21 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (chrono5454 @ Jun 25 2004, 06:21 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Zig+Jun 25 2004, 07:08 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Zig @ Jun 25 2004, 07:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> i see your har har and raise you a lollerskate. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> ooo highloller well i raise you a roflcopter <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> well i see your roflcopter and raise you an LMAOFFIZIER!
<!--QuoteBegin-Scythe+Jun 25 2004, 07:59 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Scythe @ Jun 25 2004, 07:59 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> For the love of god and all that is holy...
Speaking as a nerd with a GF of about 20 months the best advice I can give is as folows: <ul>
</li><li>Relax,
</li><li>Make sure you feel comfortable,
</li><li>Laugh a bit,
</li><li>(Not too much),
</li><li>Find something to do you both enjoy,
</li><li>(Not that...),
</li><li>Failing that, raise a topic of discussion you know will last a while and will reveal a lot about eachother to eachother,
</li><li>Be NICE, that means opening doors and not farting too loudly, not groveling at her feet with a mouthfull of flowers,
</li><li>Don't act "cool", acting cool always comes accross as loserish unless you're The Fonz,
</li><li>If at all possible, make friends with her friends too, gives them something to talk about behind your back. ^_^
</li></ul>--Scythe-- <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Just be yourself also.
Good points by scythe.
About the gifts. Dont lavish over her too much or obsess. Make a pass at her or 2, and if she responds keep going. By affirm but also play hard to get.
Make her want you, not the other way around. Find out her interests, and find a creative way to share it with her.
No matter what the looks, if you enjoy her company, and she enjoys yours go for it.
Have fun <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
P.S. First date, take her to a public event.
Movie etc. Why? Dont take her 1 on 1. Make her feel appreciated and you want to show her off to everyone. First couple dates, make it purely fun, not so much as intimate. Work your way from Fun>Intimate.
When you talk to her look in her eyes, and not at her breasts <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> Also dont go out of your way to open a door, and to tuck in her chaiir. From the sound of it, shes contemporary. Shes independant. Do these polite things naturally, and not akwardly forceful.. Go on ur first date. Get her number at the door. give her a nice 3 second hug said you had a nice time, and say youll be sure to call sometime.
antifreezeThe guy with the goods!Join Date: 2003-05-12Member: 16232Members, Constellation
When i get up later tomorrow i hope to see a post saying OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111111one she said yeh <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
QuaunautThe longest seven days in history...Join Date: 2003-03-21Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
Okay. I'd first like to say: I GOT 5 HOURS! WOOT!(woulda been 7 if I had my damned liscense...my mom took FOREVER to get ready! And just to let you know- this girl thinks my mom is uber cool, so its not a mistake).
First off: I generally followed the rules each of you gave. I was myself- At first I let my nervousness show, but it wore off within 5 seconds. Us 2, we are just so comfortable together it was no problem getting into that mode.
All in all, we spent the first hour talking about her, some dreams she had, and it ended in Video Games(she started it).
After that we wandered around for a hour(talking), got some lunch, then saw a movie(Around the World in 80 Days- GREAT MOVIE! Seriously.)
Then we spent another hour talking, and I drove her home(mom slept in back- she does that a lot).
And man...today makes me into her more and more.
I didn't get the gall to outright tell her my feelings- so I'm gonna try and do this quite a few more times with her. Unluckily- she is going to Utah tommorrow(she found out right before the movie- had no idea).
Overall, it was a great day, for the both of it. She said she loved the day, I told her it was one of the best days I ever had all through High School- because frankly it was. Overall, I think it went really well.
And as to pics: Sorry, no pics. I won't give you a pic of my GF or GFHopeful till you see a pic of me, and she approves.
And as to bragging: I'm so lucky I'm the kind of guy that I was blessed with Automatic morals- I can't stare at a girl's chest, it just doesn't interest me. But the face, my God, I could stare into a girl's face for days(and with this girl- who knows how long). I also have the luck of almost never thinking of sex, unless its for joke material. Otherwise, it never really crosses my mind unles I force it to, which I don't like to do, so I'm safe.
Thanks for your advice everyone, and continue to give it!
Other like some of the other pervs around here, Im happy for you that you can share with a person of a different sex on more of a level than just lust.
QuaunautThe longest seven days in history...Join Date: 2003-03-21Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
Didn't I warn about posts like this in the first post? I'm not a pervert. Frankly, this girl makes me happy just existing in the same 5 feet with her- sex with her hasn't even crossed my mind seriously yet.
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 26 2004, 12:52 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 26 2004, 12:52 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Didn't I warn about posts like this in the first post? I'm not a pervert. Frankly, this girl makes me happy just existing in the same 5 feet with her- sex with her hasn't even crossed my mind seriously yet. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> WHOO WHOO, IT HAS NOW!!!
[edit] seriously, good job and all that jazz, I hope everything turns out for the best for you. Oh, and time to take that hot anime chick out of your sig <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 25 2004, 09:36 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 25 2004, 09:36 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Thanks for your advice everyone, and continue to give it! <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> If she owns/drives a car, sneak over to her house one night and cover it in several dozen red roses*. My sister was floored when her boyfriend did that for her a while back.
*Put one under each windshield wiper, one on each rearview mirror, a heart-shape on the hood, etc.
<!--QuoteBegin-Dragon_Mech+Jun 26 2004, 01:03 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Dragon_Mech @ Jun 26 2004, 01:03 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 25 2004, 09:36 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 25 2004, 09:36 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Thanks for your advice everyone, and continue to give it! <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> If she owns/drives a car, sneak over to her house one night and cover it in several dozen red roses. My sister was floored when her boyfriend did that for her a while back. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I think its a little early for that all things considered, but some very good advice indeed. It actually works for almost any of her possesions, just the car is the easyest to access at night.
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 26 2004, 12:52 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 26 2004, 12:52 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Didn't I warn about posts like this in the first post? I'm not a pervert. Frankly, this girl makes me happy just existing in the same 5 feet with her- sex with her hasn't even crossed my mind seriously yet. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Yes it has. Repression is neither sexy nor cool - you don't have to pretend you wouldn't like pretty much every damn level of intimacy with here (even if going straight there might freak you out).
This is just a tiny bit what Zig was talking about, the only person here with reasonable advice. Stay calm, and don't go all "OHMYGAWD YOU ARE TOO DIVINE TO EVER NAIL NOSEX4U!". Trust me, it doesn't help when you're more nervous than she on your first time... they suck enough as is <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> (And not in the literal sense, unfortunately)
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->And as to bragging: I'm so lucky I'm the kind of guy that I was blessed with Automatic morals<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Thats natural. Its almost exclusively the social tabu that makes staring at tittys interesting to the point that its reflexive for some people. Or walking around with your head hung and bumping into someones cleavage, which is pretty damn embarassing <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Anyways, I hope you realize with this comes the responsibility to someday recruit a new NSPlayer >)
Edit : To what Dragon Mech said, try to stay with what can be cleaned up without too much hassle though <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
There's not much for me to say, other than this; Quau, I'm glad you've found a girl you like so much, and best of luck with everything <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-SaltzBad+Jun 26 2004, 06:04 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (SaltzBad @ Jun 26 2004, 06:04 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 26 2004, 12:52 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 26 2004, 12:52 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Didn't I warn about posts like this in the first post? I'm not a pervert. Frankly, this girl makes me happy just existing in the same 5 feet with her- sex with her hasn't even crossed my mind seriously yet. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Yes it has. Repression is neither sexy nor cool - you don't have to pretend you wouldn't like pretty much every damn level of intimacy with here (even if going straight there might freak you out). <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Meh, there are some people who are just plainly... Non-sexual. They have no interest in sex. I know of two people who are non-sexual, three if Quaunaut is non-sexual.
Good luck, Quaun! Sounds like you can make her really happy, and she can do the same. Have fun. <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
antifreezeThe guy with the goods!Join Date: 2003-05-12Member: 16232Members, Constellation
<!--QuoteBegin-Quaunaut+Jun 26 2004, 04:36 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Quaunaut @ Jun 26 2004, 04:36 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I'm so lucky I'm the kind of guy that I was blessed with Automatic morals- I can't stare at a girl's chest, it just doesn't interest me. But the face, my God, I could stare into a girl's face for days(and with this girl- who knows how long). I also have the luck of almost never thinking of sex, unless its for joke material. Otherwise, it never really crosses my mind unles I force it to, which I don't like to do, so I'm safe.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Arghhhhh, not thinking about sex, WTH? <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif' /><!--endemo--> I not sure if thats a goodor a bad thing, its good in the respect your **** cant take over your brain, but bad because most lads think about sex alot. I do agree with you on the morals part, staring into a chest isnt a good thing, and fortunatly im quite uninterested in chests. Although i would recommend not staring into her face for days, she may think u are a bit odd <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I think u have done well lad. Being able to have a relationship which doesnt just revolve around sex. I say good luck to you, hope that things work out well for you both.
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Say its hot in the room and take off your shirt. then say its really hot then take your pants off. thats how you win the girls over<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> I have an urge to kill you for the stupidity of that comment, lol <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->If she owns/drives a car, sneak over to her house one night and cover it in several dozen red roses*. My sister was floored when her boyfriend did that for her a while back.
*Put one under each windshield wiper, one on each rearview mirror, a heart-shape on the hood, etc.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Lol. Is she still with him
<!--QuoteBegin-Zig+Jun 25 2004, 09:37 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Zig @ Jun 25 2004, 09:37 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-chrono5454+Jun 25 2004, 06:21 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (chrono5454 @ Jun 25 2004, 06:21 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Zig+Jun 25 2004, 07:08 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Zig @ Jun 25 2004, 07:08 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> i see your har har and raise you a lollerskate. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> ooo highloller well i raise you a roflcopter <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> well i see your roflcopter and raise you an LMAOFFIZIER! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> i see your LMAOFFIZIER and RUN!
quauauau: impress her by saying your a professional ns player <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
oh and after the 4 hours when she leaves you gotta go outside and do a fist pump to a freeze frame 80's style, with the camera zooming out
<!--QuoteBegin-kuperaye+Jun 26 2004, 10:13 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (kuperaye @ Jun 26 2004, 10:13 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> quauauau: impress her by saying your a professional ns player <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> If at least he were, then he'd get my booty <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
QuaunautThe longest seven days in history...Join Date: 2003-03-21Member: 14759Members, Constellation, Reinforced - Shadow
Heh. I'm glad some people understand that its possible to be fully non-sexual- to me the most beautiful thing on a woman is her personality- and her face is 2nd only to it.
Man...I find myself falling for this girl all over again every time I see her. When I walked into Borders yesterday(where we decided to meet), I just about collapsed- she was in these long modern capris, and a white tank-top(Which almost always if she wears one of those- it also has a jacket too). Man...hmm. Wondering: Is it normal to have a constant feeling like your heart is pounding so fast that when you put your hand on your chest, you feel no heartbeat? It was constantly like that yesterday...and every time I think about her, I get the same feeling- this INSANE adrenaline rush, and I can't stop thinking about her. I mean, I know I got it bad- any time I don't have something to think about, it ends up being her(load times, making sandwiches, commercials...)- her image and her voice just fills my head, and I start getting lightheaded, and get the intense NEED to just grab hold of her and hug her, as tight as I can.
If she's gonna agree to go out with you she will either say yes or no if it's the former you will feel like the world has fallen in on you and **** but you will get over it and it will be a lot easier the next time round. From my personal experiences with women they like being complimented a lot and made to feel wanted/special. Stick to that and you can't go far wrong really.
Kinda chasing a girl atm myself, she's the first one that I have been interested in for who she is and not cos she has a great pair of **** or an amazing **** <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo--> . It kinda started out as friends and has moved on for there. We're kinda at the best mate stage now and I'm quite content to leave it there because I'm happy just spending time with her and being around her. Pushing it further might ruin that.
GrendelAll that is fear...Join Date: 2002-07-19Member: 970Members, NS1 Playtester, Contributor, NS2 Playtester
<!--QuoteBegin-Swiftspear+Jun 26 2004, 01:34 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Swiftspear @ Jun 26 2004, 01:34 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Killymagee+Jun 25 2004, 07:25 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Killymagee @ Jun 25 2004, 07:25 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Post a picture of her please, so we can Ridicule. hehe <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> "oh, um, hi, can I take a picture of you so I can show all my internet buddies how hot you are? What do you mean I'm a creep? I just want to get some good advice on weather or not I should date you from a bunch of guys who play video games all day. Whats wrong with that?" <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Arf arf.
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"oh, um, hi, can I take a picture of you so I can show all my internet buddies how hot you are? What do you mean I'm a creep? I just want to get some good advice on weather or not I should date you from a bunch of guys who play video games all day. Whats wrong with that?"
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but as others said
PICS PICS PICS
no jk
Speaking as a nerd with a GF of about 20 months the best advice I can give is as folows:
<ul><li>Relax,</li><li>Make sure you feel comfortable,</li><li>Laugh a bit,</li><li>(Not too much),</li><li>Find something to do you both enjoy,</li><li>(Not that...),</li><li>Failing that, raise a topic of discussion you know will last a while and will reveal a lot about eachother to eachother,</li><li>Be NICE, that means opening doors and not farting too loudly, not groveling at her feet with a mouthfull of flowers,</li><li>Don't act "cool", acting cool always comes accross as loserish unless you're The Fonz,</li><li>If at all possible, make friends with her friends too, gives them something to talk about behind your back. ^_^</li></ul>
--Scythe--
Pwned <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
we're a couple you ridiculous noobs.
pwned.
to elaborate for quaunaut and ripzaw and skyhigh: you're allowed to go batshlt crazy for a girl if you're guaranteed good lovin. ;3<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
See the <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> ?
Means "I'm kidding".
Joking.
Funny.
Har-har.
......
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ooo highloller well i raise you a roflcopter
Her personality is just the best I have ever met in a person. Out of every person I've ever met, she is just the nicest, modestest(?), funny, and just plain great person to be around. She also has the one thing that so far all the women I've gone for didn't- she shares our love of Christ above all.
Her looks are just as amazing as her personality. She is Indonesian primarily(35%- other than that, tons of others really small)- and she is drop dead gorgeous. As I compared to my clanmates last night- Tyra Banks has nothin on this girl. Jennifer Lopez- nothin. Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Paris Hilton- I have never seen a girl THIS good looking, yet dresses so modestly, and unprovocotive, yet can make any man drool over her even so. AND SHE'S NOT OBSESSED WITH FASHION EITHER! Its her own style she likes <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Then, all our interests are just about the same- Anime, Games, Romance, and generalized Physical activity(she likes to play Soccer- I like what I've learned so far in the martial arts. Note: I'm teaching myself, with a dojo making sure I do it right. I'm devving my own style, but thats for a thread all its own).
And after knowing her for over a year now- I finally got lucky enough to end up ALONE WITH HER FOR 4 HOURS! Heres to hoping and praying that I can do it right.
Now, I didn't post this just to brag. I wanted to ask: Any advice for a girl like this? Any advice for women in general? Gift ideas? It doesn't matter when you post about it- it'll be put to good use in weeks to come.
And note: She isn't my girlfriend YET. Hopefully(I'm praying harder for this than anything in my entire life) she will be one day. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Similar problem for me, although not quite the same...
Good luck man, hope things work out!
ooo highloller well i raise you a roflcopter <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
well i see your roflcopter and raise you an LMAOFFIZIER!
Speaking as a nerd with a GF of about 20 months the best advice I can give is as folows: <ul>
</li><li>Relax,
</li><li>Make sure you feel comfortable,
</li><li>Laugh a bit,
</li><li>(Not too much),
</li><li>Find something to do you both enjoy,
</li><li>(Not that...),
</li><li>Failing that, raise a topic of discussion you know will last a while and will reveal a lot about eachother to eachother,
</li><li>Be NICE, that means opening doors and not farting too loudly, not groveling at her feet with a mouthfull of flowers,
</li><li>Don't act "cool", acting cool always comes accross as loserish unless you're The Fonz,
</li><li>If at all possible, make friends with her friends too, gives them something to talk about behind your back. ^_^
</li></ul>--Scythe-- <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Just be yourself also.
Good points by scythe.
About the gifts. Dont lavish over her too much or obsess. Make a pass at her or 2, and if she responds keep going. By affirm but also play hard to get.
Make her want you, not the other way around. Find out her interests, and find a creative way to share it with her.
No matter what the looks, if you enjoy her company, and she enjoys yours go for it.
Have fun <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->
P.S.
First date, take her to a public event.
Movie etc. Why? Dont take her 1 on 1. Make her feel appreciated and you want to show her off to everyone.
First couple dates, make it purely fun, not so much as intimate. Work your way from Fun>Intimate.
When you talk to her look in her eyes, and not at her breasts <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Also dont go out of your way to open a door, and to tuck in her chaiir. From the sound of it, shes contemporary. Shes independant.
Do these polite things naturally, and not akwardly forceful..
Go on ur first date. Get her number at the door. give her a nice 3 second hug said you had a nice time, and say youll be sure to call sometime.
Yes I am a pimp.
First off: I generally followed the rules each of you gave. I was myself- At first I let my nervousness show, but it wore off within 5 seconds. Us 2, we are just so comfortable together it was no problem getting into that mode.
All in all, we spent the first hour talking about her, some dreams she had, and it ended in Video Games(she started it).
After that we wandered around for a hour(talking), got some lunch, then saw a movie(Around the World in 80 Days- GREAT MOVIE! Seriously.)
Then we spent another hour talking, and I drove her home(mom slept in back- she does that a lot).
And man...today makes me into her more and more.
I didn't get the gall to outright tell her my feelings- so I'm gonna try and do this quite a few more times with her. Unluckily- she is going to Utah tommorrow(she found out right before the movie- had no idea).
Overall, it was a great day, for the both of it. She said she loved the day, I told her it was one of the best days I ever had all through High School- because frankly it was. Overall, I think it went really well.
And as to pics: Sorry, no pics. I won't give you a pic of my GF or GFHopeful till you see a pic of me, and she approves.
And as to bragging: I'm so lucky I'm the kind of guy that I was blessed with Automatic morals- I can't stare at a girl's chest, it just doesn't interest me. But the face, my God, I could stare into a girl's face for days(and with this girl- who knows how long). I also have the luck of almost never thinking of sex, unless its for joke material. Otherwise, it never really crosses my mind unles I force it to, which I don't like to do, so I'm safe.
Thanks for your advice everyone, and continue to give it!
Advice for most of the people here.
Real girls are better than internet girls.
(points to chrono baggins)
WHOO WHOO, IT HAS NOW!!!
[edit] seriously, good job and all that jazz, I hope everything turns out for the best for you. Oh, and time to take that hot anime chick out of your sig <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Quaunaut, that is awesome.
If she owns/drives a car, sneak over to her house one night and cover it in several dozen red roses*. My sister was floored when her boyfriend did that for her a while back.
*Put one under each windshield wiper, one on each rearview mirror, a heart-shape on the hood, etc.
If she owns/drives a car, sneak over to her house one night and cover it in several dozen red roses. My sister was floored when her boyfriend did that for her a while back. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
I think its a little early for that all things considered, but some very good advice indeed. It actually works for almost any of her possesions, just the car is the easyest to access at night.
Yes it has. Repression is neither sexy nor cool - you don't have to pretend you wouldn't like pretty much every damn level of intimacy with here (even if going straight there might freak you out).
This is just a tiny bit what Zig was talking about, the only person here with reasonable advice. Stay calm, and don't go all "OHMYGAWD YOU ARE TOO DIVINE TO EVER NAIL NOSEX4U!". Trust me, it doesn't help when you're more nervous than she on your first time... they suck enough as is <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> (And not in the literal sense, unfortunately)
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->And as to bragging: I'm so lucky I'm the kind of guy that I was blessed with Automatic morals<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Thats natural. Its almost exclusively the social tabu that makes staring at tittys interesting to the point that its reflexive for some people. Or walking around with your head hung and bumping into someones cleavage, which is pretty damn embarassing <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Anyways, I hope you realize with this comes the responsibility to someday recruit a new NSPlayer >)
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To what Dragon Mech said, try to stay with what can be cleaned up without too much hassle though <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Yes it has. Repression is neither sexy nor cool - you don't have to pretend you wouldn't like pretty much every damn level of intimacy with here (even if going straight there might freak you out). <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Meh, there are some people who are just plainly... Non-sexual. They have no interest in sex. I know of two people who are non-sexual, three if Quaunaut is non-sexual.
Good luck, Quaun! Sounds like you can make her really happy, and she can do the same. Have fun. <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Arghhhhh, not thinking about sex, WTH? <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I not sure if thats a goodor a bad thing, its good in the respect your **** cant take over your brain, but bad because most lads think about sex alot.
I do agree with you on the morals part, staring into a chest isnt a good thing, and fortunatly im quite uninterested in chests. Although i would recommend not staring into her face for days, she may think u are a bit odd <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I think u have done well lad. Being able to have a relationship which doesnt just revolve around sex. I say good luck to you, hope that things work out well for you both.
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Say its hot in the room and take off your shirt. then say its really hot then take your pants off. thats how you win the girls over<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
I have an urge to kill you for the stupidity of that comment, lol <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->If she owns/drives a car, sneak over to her house one night and cover it in several dozen red roses*. My sister was floored when her boyfriend did that for her a while back.
*Put one under each windshield wiper, one on each rearview mirror, a heart-shape on the hood, etc.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Lol. Is she still with him
ooo highloller well i raise you a roflcopter <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
well i see your roflcopter and raise you an LMAOFFIZIER! <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
i see your LMAOFFIZIER and RUN!
oh and after the 4 hours when she leaves you gotta go outside and do a fist pump to a freeze frame 80's style, with the camera zooming out
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If at least he were, then he'd get my booty <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Man...I find myself falling for this girl all over again every time I see her. When I walked into Borders yesterday(where we decided to meet), I just about collapsed- she was in these long modern capris, and a white tank-top(Which almost always if she wears one of those- it also has a jacket too). Man...hmm. Wondering: Is it normal to have a constant feeling like your heart is pounding so fast that when you put your hand on your chest, you feel no heartbeat? It was constantly like that yesterday...and every time I think about her, I get the same feeling- this INSANE adrenaline rush, and I can't stop thinking about her. I mean, I know I got it bad- any time I don't have something to think about, it ends up being her(load times, making sandwiches, commercials...)- her image and her voice just fills my head, and I start getting lightheaded, and get the intense NEED to just grab hold of her and hug her, as tight as I can.
Yeah. I got it bad.
Kinda chasing a girl atm myself, she's the first one that I have been interested in for who she is and not cos she has a great pair of **** or an amazing **** <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo--> . It kinda started out as friends and has moved on for there. We're kinda at the best mate stage now and I'm quite content to leave it there because I'm happy just spending time with her and being around her. Pushing it further might ruin that.
"oh, um, hi, can I take a picture of you so I can show all my internet buddies how hot you are? What do you mean I'm a creep? I just want to get some good advice on weather or not I should date you from a bunch of guys who play video games all day. Whats wrong with that?" <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Arf arf.