<!--QuoteBegin-Ice9+Mar 21 2005, 01:28 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Ice9 @ Mar 21 2005, 01:28 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Obst, if you truly want to change, that **** "I suck at life" in your avatar and signature aren't going to help. They're going to make you look like an idiot.
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Also, get a LiveJournal account. You can get one from <a href='http://www.livejournal.com' target='_blank'>http://www.livejournal.com</a>
And to <b>Grendel</b>, do most therapists suffer from the thing that they try to cure? Do they really know what it's like? To be a prisoner of themselves?
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<!--QuoteBegin-Ice9+Mar 20 2005, 08:01 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Ice9 @ Mar 20 2005, 08:01 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> And to <b>Grendel</b>, do most therapists suffer from the thing that they try to cure? Do they really know what it's like? To be a prisoner of themselves? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I think the idea is that the therapist is an unbiased observer, who can help you objectively.
I'm not being sarcastic. I would also advise talking to a physician, at the very least. Best of luck to you, and I hope you're able to overcome this.
Either this is a terrible excercise of performance art or you're trying to express the conflict between the romantic and the realist in a way that confuses everybody and makes me want to smash my head down a toilet.
TOILET
BTW, read Catcher in the Rye. I think you will relate to it very well.
<!--QuoteBegin-Ice9+Mar 20 2005, 08:01 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Ice9 @ Mar 20 2005, 08:01 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> And to <b>Grendel</b>, do most therapists suffer from the thing that they try to cure? Do they really know what it's like? To be a prisoner of themselves? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I can speak to that one. To some degree this is true, many theripists do go into thier field in the hopes that they can sort throught thier own issues, and to recieve a psychological degree you must have gone through a full assessment yourself. If it is important to you to find one that suffered from the same disorder you do, you may have to search a bit though, but they should exist somewhere.
Honestly even the less experianced psychologists have probably seen people suffereing from the same thing you do that they could pretty much tell you exactly how you feel without really even talking with you for very long. They may not all have personally experianced your ordeal, but they treated and helped many many people who have gone through many of the same things you have.
You guys, there IS a light at the end of the tunnel, even if all you can see right now is pitch black. Keep on plugging and take whatever oppertunity you can to search for that light, you WILL find it sooner or later.
My friend (notice that I now use that term. \o/ for mindchange) somehow succeeded in talking me away from exagerated rational thinking, including that crappy theory my rational part had created concerning my role in evolution... Well here is the result (in short, original text is in german >.<) of that talk:
I was now able to trace back my massive mind shifts to be caused by the differences between fear and desire created in elementary school times when my parents were close to break up and I was confronted with a girl feeling desire for me. Climaxing in these two ways of thinking to drift apart.
In addition I found out something that should perhaps help me in some sad moments: Being proud of what you are capable of is way better than being afraid of what you are not capable of.
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k.
They are generally more useful sources of accurate information regarding psychological/neurological disorders than teenage gamers.
No offence guys.
And to <b>Grendel</b>, do most therapists suffer from the thing that they try to cure? Do they really know what it's like? To be a prisoner of themselves?
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<a href='http://www.livejournal.com/users/obstgemuese/' target='_blank'>http://www.livejournal.com/users/obstgemuese/</a>
But hey, something new every day...
Good luck Obst!!
I think the idea is that the therapist is an unbiased observer, who can help you objectively.
I'm not being sarcastic. I would also advise talking to a physician, at the very least. Best of luck to you, and I hope you're able to overcome this.
TOILET
BTW, read Catcher in the Rye. I think you will relate to it very well.
I can speak to that one. To some degree this is true, many theripists do go into thier field in the hopes that they can sort throught thier own issues, and to recieve a psychological degree you must have gone through a full assessment yourself. If it is important to you to find one that suffered from the same disorder you do, you may have to search a bit though, but they should exist somewhere.
Honestly even the less experianced psychologists have probably seen people suffereing from the same thing you do that they could pretty much tell you exactly how you feel without really even talking with you for very long. They may not all have personally experianced your ordeal, but they treated and helped many many people who have gone through many of the same things you have.
You guys, there IS a light at the end of the tunnel, even if all you can see right now is pitch black. Keep on plugging and take whatever oppertunity you can to search for that light, you WILL find it sooner or later.
Well here is the result (in short, original text is in german >.<) of that talk:
I was now able to trace back my massive mind shifts to be caused by the differences between fear and desire created in elementary school times when my parents were close to break up and I was confronted with a girl feeling desire for me.
Climaxing in these two ways of thinking to drift apart.
In addition I found out something that should perhaps help me in some sad moments:
Being proud of what you are capable of is way better than being afraid of what you are not capable of.