I thought about it, and I realized.. yeah, that was maybe speaking out of line, because I was talking from my perspective - I've had to turn down more than one guy with whom I was good friends, and (prior to my declining their romantic affections) they expressed how much it meant to them and how deeply they felt - I felt not only pressure but I felt badly for not returning their feelings. I don't think that will be so in this case, and I guess I just felt all the baggage from my past nagging at me or something. ^^;
I've gone both ways - expressed feelings and been turned down, and then had times where I didn't even try - and I should have.
If she doesn't like you but she's a decent person then you'll stay friends and may even be closer as you will have removed that stress on the friendship.
If she doesn't like you and isn't a decent person she will act all stupid about it and you may lose her as a friend... but then who wants to have someone that daft as either a friend or a gf? Better off without her.
I'm a big believer in fully telling the truth.
(PS, excuse me for bragging in my last post, it doesn't happen often and I'm happy about it and telling people here isn't the closest (and safest) thing to telling the whole world).
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<!--QuoteBegin-CMEast+Jun 30 2004, 07:18 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (CMEast @ Jun 30 2004, 07:18 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I'm a big believer in always trying.
If she likes you back then w00t
If she doesn't like you but she's a decent person then you'll stay friends and may even be closer as you will have removed that stress on the friendship.
If she doesn't like you and isn't a decent person she will act all stupid about it and you may lose her as a friend... but then who wants to have someone that daft as either a friend or a gf? Better off without her.
I'm a big believer in fully telling the truth.
(PS, excuse me for bragging in my last post, it doesn't happen often and I'm happy about it and telling people here isn't the closest (and safest) thing to telling the whole world). <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Very understandable- and 'grats.
Athena- I think your beginning to understand the predicament 100% now. Man- one thing I've been learning a lot in the past week or two is that men- no matter who- are expected to be perverts, behind the girl's back. They always expect you to look at their **** when they bend over- always expect you to peek at their cleavage, at anything. But those who do don't get called perverts- those that look away get called it.
Hey...i am really envay with u. u had the feeling i had a year ago about a girl named shir. ofcurse we never had the same hoobies, but still i found her as the beaudiful thing in this whole freaking plant. i wrote songs about her, dreamed about her and staff. and in the summber vacation i worked on my "MASTER CREATION" which is about a date with her. but she refused. never tasted the taste of love.
maybe some ppl were destined to be not beloved ones, or never win such a fantastic love like u having. Im freaking envay with u now, but i wont be childish. GL..be ur self. actully i dont know this experssion means cuz i dont know my self :\, i think its normal when u r around a girl u like to start act a bit diffrent: make her laugh more and staff.
anyhow..i hate love. i have a soul of a mercenry, nor for romance.
<!--QuoteBegin-zooby+Jun 29 2004, 05:38 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (zooby @ Jun 29 2004, 05:38 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-voogru+Jun 29 2004, 06:09 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (voogru @ Jun 29 2004, 06:09 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> You guys are all wrong, best way to get a girl is to simply set thier m_pBoyFriend pointer on their instance of CPerson to your instance of pPerson, then set the m_iBase to whatever you feel most confortable with.
Its easy.
<!--c1--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>CODE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='CODE'><!--ec1-->CPerson *pMe = GetPersonPointer( YOU ); CPerson *pHer = GetPersonPointer ( HER );
if(pMe && pHer) { pHer->m_pBoyFriend = pMe; pHer->m_iBase = 1;//numbers are 0 - > 5 (5 being home, setting this to 0 will cause m_pBoyFriend to be set to null next frame) } <!--c2--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--ec2-->
Thats all there is to it! <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Finally in language everyone can understand!!!11 <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> actully i dont... i will learn it next year.. so far i learned assmbler and pascal..oh and ACCESS (lame indeed)
<!--QuoteBegin-Vegeta+--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Vegeta)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->but she refused. never tasted the taste of love. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Friends.. FRIENDS?
ROFL..... u made me laugh a bit <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo--> tnx <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
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I've gone both ways - expressed feelings and been turned down, and then had times where I didn't even try - and I should have.
If she likes you back then w00t
If she doesn't like you but she's a decent person then you'll stay friends and may even be closer as you will have removed that stress on the friendship.
If she doesn't like you and isn't a decent person she will act all stupid about it and you may lose her as a friend... but then who wants to have someone that daft as either a friend or a gf? Better off without her.
I'm a big believer in fully telling the truth.
(PS, excuse me for bragging in my last post, it doesn't happen often and I'm happy about it and telling people here isn't the closest (and safest) thing to telling the whole world).
Into my life...
If she likes you back then w00t
If she doesn't like you but she's a decent person then you'll stay friends and may even be closer as you will have removed that stress on the friendship.
If she doesn't like you and isn't a decent person she will act all stupid about it and you may lose her as a friend... but then who wants to have someone that daft as either a friend or a gf? Better off without her.
I'm a big believer in fully telling the truth.
(PS, excuse me for bragging in my last post, it doesn't happen often and I'm happy about it and telling people here isn't the closest (and safest) thing to telling the whole world). <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Very understandable- and 'grats.
Athena- I think your beginning to understand the predicament 100% now. Man- one thing I've been learning a lot in the past week or two is that men- no matter who- are expected to be perverts, behind the girl's back. They always expect you to look at their **** when they bend over- always expect you to peek at their cleavage, at anything. But those who do don't get called perverts- those that look away get called it.
Damn my chivalry. Though it WILL NOT DIE!
maybe some ppl were destined to be not beloved ones, or never win such a fantastic love like u having. Im freaking envay with u now, but i wont be childish. GL..be ur self. actully i dont know this experssion means cuz i dont know my self :\, i think its normal when u r around a girl u like to start act a bit diffrent: make her laugh more and staff.
anyhow..i hate love. i have a soul of a mercenry, nor for romance.
Its easy.
<!--c1--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>CODE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='CODE'><!--ec1-->CPerson *pMe = GetPersonPointer( YOU );
CPerson *pHer = GetPersonPointer ( HER );
if(pMe && pHer)
{
pHer->m_pBoyFriend = pMe;
pHer->m_iBase = 1;//numbers are 0 - > 5 (5 being home, setting this to 0 will cause m_pBoyFriend to be set to null next frame)
}
<!--c2--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--ec2-->
Thats all there is to it! <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Finally in language everyone can understand!!!11 <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
actully i dont... i will learn it next year.. so far i learned assmbler and pascal..oh and ACCESS (lame indeed)
Friends.. FRIENDS?
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u made me laugh a bit <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif' /><!--endemo-->
tnx <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->