You May Not Be Friends With Your Colleagues

lolfighterlolfighter Snark, Dire Join Date: 2003-04-20 Member: 15693Members
<div class="IPBDescription">As The Law Goes</div> I think this has been on slashdot too. Whatever.

So, a recent ruling by the National Labor Relations Board <a href='http://www.americanrightsatwork.org/workersrights/eye7_2005.cfm' target='_blank'>allows employers to ban off-duty fraternizing among co-workers.</a> The two main questions I am asking are 'how' and 'why.'

As for the how, this is a tricky one. After all, how will your boss prevent you from speaking to Bob from the neighbouring cubicle on the bus on your way home?

Same thing for the why, really. What does your boss care that you are speaking to Bob from the neighbouring cubicle on the bus on your way home?

The crucial point is mentioned by the article itself: Labour unions. If your boss makes use of his new-found privilege, you are now incapable of joining a labour union that any of your co-workers is a member of. And since a labour union works out in the open, the law could very well be enforced in this way.

Tell me, am I getting something wrong, or could this make everything immensely hard for labour unions? Am I over-reacting, or is somebody else rather spooked by this? Tell us your thoughts.

Comments

  • ScytheScythe Join Date: 2002-01-25 Member: 46NS1 Playtester, Forum Moderators, Constellation, Reinforced - Silver
    This has got to be a joke. There is no way in hell anyone can prevent anyone from being friends with ANYONE without violating some fundimental human rights.

    --Scythe--
  • CyndaneCyndane Join Date: 2003-11-15 Member: 22913Members
    Yeah, if I am readin this correctly you are not allowed to be friends with someone outside of work, at all, notta, nothing, zip.

    Umm, I don't think it is possible to pass a law like that, then again I don't know how the UK works things.

    I agree with Scythe.
  • reasareasa Join Date: 2002-11-10 Member: 8010Members, Constellation
    Sounds down right Stalinish.

    Some people need a good slap in the back of the head...with a cinder block.
  • SnidelySnidely Join Date: 2003-02-04 Member: 13098Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Cyndane+Aug 3 2005, 05:31 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Cyndane @ Aug 3 2005, 05:31 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Yeah, if I am readin this correctly you are not allowed to be friends with someone outside of work, at all, notta, nothing, zip.

    Umm, I don't think it is possible to pass a law like that, then again I don't know how the UK works things.

    I agree with Scythe. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    I've probably just missed something, but I thought this was a US thing? The site is "American Rights At Work", after all, and it doesn't mention the UK in the article.
  • CxwfCxwf Join Date: 2003-02-05 Member: 13168Members, Constellation
    Meanwhile I've just been introduced to the work policy that bans dating among co-workers, which is really annoying since I had actually been <i>trying</i> to date one of them. I'm guessing that the primary purpose of this type of policy is to reduce the possibility for Sexual Harassment lawsuits, which just serves to make me even madder at the type of people who actually FILE Sexual Harassment lawsuits. But I'm probably not thinking this all the way through...
  • SkySky Join Date: 2004-04-23 Member: 28131Members
    edited August 2005
    <!--QuoteBegin-Cxwf+Aug 3 2005, 07:51 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Cxwf @ Aug 3 2005, 07:51 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Meanwhile I've just been introduced to the work policy that bans dating among co-workers, which is really annoying since I had actually been <i>trying</i> to date one of them.  I'm guessing that the primary purpose of this type of policy is to reduce the possibility for Sexual Harassment lawsuits, which just serves to make me even madder at the type of people who actually FILE Sexual Harassment lawsuits.  But I'm probably not thinking this all the way through... <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    No, it's to prevent complicated personal relationships from screwing with the work environment. As in, you date someone, you're lovey every day at work (possibly annoying prude-ish customers), break up, she dates someone else at work, cue massive emotional tension.

    Not saying I agree with it, just saying that's why I think it's there.
  • CageyCagey Ex-Unknown Worlds Programmer Join Date: 2002-11-15 Member: 8829Members, Retired Developer, NS1 Playtester, Constellation
    edited August 2005
    Instead of reading the version of events published by a professional union lobby, it might be instructive to go to the primary source of the controversy. The NLRB decision is available on the web here: <a href='http://www.nlrb.gov/nlrb/shared_files/decisions/344/344-97.htm' target='_blank'>http://www.nlrb.gov/nlrb/shared_files/deci.../344/344-97.htm</a>

    One section of that decision reads:
    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Contrary to our dissenting colleague, we do not believe that the Respondent’s rule would reasonably tend to chill protected employee activity.  The Respondent’s proscription against fraternization appears alongside proscriptions on “dat[ing,] or becom[ing] overly friendly with the client’s employees or with co-employees.”  That being so, we believe that employees would reasonably understand the rule to prohibit only personal entanglements, rather than activity protected by the Act.  In our view, it would be an unreasonable stretch for an employee to infer that speaking to others about terms and conditions of employment is a “fraternization” that is condemned by the rule. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    By the same logic, sharing a beer after work and talking sports would also be an "unreasonable stretch" in the eyes of the board, so the topic is being grossly blown out of proportion by the article. The NLRB is not authorizing a ban on meeting people outside of work--to do so would be 180 degrees from its purpose.

    The NLRB was mandated to protect the right to form unions and demand fair labor treatment. The article posted here was written by a special interest group that is trying to expand its reach through being alarmist. The slashdot article is a link to the article posted here. In spite of what the hype says, the board itself feels that the rule was just a different wording of an anti-dating policy, and if it were actually enforced as anti-union or anti-socializing in general they'd be able to lodge another protest with the board.

    <!--QuoteBegin--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->The crucial point is mentioned by the article itself: Labour unions. If your boss makes use of his new-found privilege, you are now incapable of joining a labour union that any of your co-workers is a member of. And since a labour union works out in the open, the law could very well be enforced in this way.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    That's hot air being blown by a professional lobby--the board's decision makes it explicit they do not intend to allow enforcement of what you are talking about here. The subtitle of this topic is also misleading--the NLRB is a governing body that sets national policy--they are not legistlative and do not make laws.
  • lolfighterlolfighter Snark, Dire Join Date: 2003-04-20 Member: 15693Members
    Well, that's a bit better. I still find it rather troubling that your boss can exert such power over your private life as to dictate whom you are allowed to entertain a deeper relationship with, but at least it's not as bad as I initially thought.
  • BaconTheoryBaconTheory Join Date: 2003-09-06 Member: 20615Members
    THis IS a joke. This is freaking unconstitutional for God's sake. If this was real, the ACLU would be all over it like flies on ****. If the NLRB actually passed this crap, then it would surprise me because it conflicts with the National Labor Relations Act.

    <a href='http://www.nlrb.gov/nlrb/legal/manuals/rules/act.asp' target='_blank'>http://www.nlrb.gov/nlrb/legal/manuals/rules/act.asp</a>
  • The_FinchThe_Finch Join Date: 2002-11-13 Member: 8498Members
    edited August 2005
    <!--QuoteBegin-Cxwf+Aug 3 2005, 06:51 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Cxwf @ Aug 3 2005, 06:51 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Meanwhile I've just been introduced to the work policy that bans dating among co-workers, which is really annoying since I had actually been <i>trying</i> to date one of them.  I'm guessing that the primary purpose of this type of policy is to reduce the possibility for Sexual Harassment lawsuits, which just serves to make me even madder at the type of people who actually FILE Sexual Harassment lawsuits.  But I'm probably not thinking this all the way through... <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Yeah, how dare that woman get uppity at you staring at her breasts and making lewd jokes.

    I've actually been sexually harrassed. When your co-workers are referring to you as the "boy toy" of the boss, it makes getting things done awkward and difficult. This wasn't some 25 year old hottie calling me cute or anything. These were women, older than my mother, insinuating that I was having sex with my boss in return for preferential treatment. Fortunately they stopped when I told them to.
  • CxwfCxwf Join Date: 2003-02-05 Member: 13168Members, Constellation
    Then perhaps I ought to get mad at the men who make all those immature lewd jokes instead?

    Me, I'm the overly polite type who only even thought about trying to go out with her because she gave a pretty strong impression she already liked me. I'm cautious enough to kill most of my dating-prospects on my own, without any outside help--so its just annoying that the one time I seem to be doing ok and not screwing things up, now its against company policy. =(
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