Freedom.
TheDestroyer
Tooobah Join Date: 2003-07-12 Member: 18123Members, Constellation
Tooobah Join Date: 2003-07-12 Member: 18123Members, Constellation
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<div class="IPBDescription">Shes gone, and I feel good.</div> Well, been going out with her for half a year-ish. Actually, couldn't really classify it as going out, since it was mostly me keeping her happy and not getting anything in return. Well, finally, she breaks up with me, making it a whole lot easier on me, because of some court case she was part of (the reason it lasted so long was so I could keep her stressless and out of trouble: something easy for her to get into).
...sigh... arn't I so nice and considerate.
Well, she breaks up with me because she thinks the relationship is going no where (wow, really?!? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->), saying how she liked it when we were friends. She also mentioned how she could talk to me better as a friend than as a b/f. Okay, what gets me here is the fact that the relationship wasnt even like a friends with slight benifits, because all that happened was me doing stuff for her and hearing about her previous...*ahem*experiences. Thats what got me, too. The fact that I was not going to get some, but rubbing it in my face and informing me what wild and crazy things she had done...thats too far.
...sigh...
I could rant and rave all day long on her...
I guess the moral of the story is that relationships can be good, or, in my case, be so hurtful, painful, and bad. So be careful out there, y'all.
The best part, though, was her not understanding why I was upset...sigh...oh well.
...sigh... arn't I so nice and considerate.
Well, she breaks up with me because she thinks the relationship is going no where (wow, really?!? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->), saying how she liked it when we were friends. She also mentioned how she could talk to me better as a friend than as a b/f. Okay, what gets me here is the fact that the relationship wasnt even like a friends with slight benifits, because all that happened was me doing stuff for her and hearing about her previous...*ahem*experiences. Thats what got me, too. The fact that I was not going to get some, but rubbing it in my face and informing me what wild and crazy things she had done...thats too far.
...sigh...
I could rant and rave all day long on her...
I guess the moral of the story is that relationships can be good, or, in my case, be so hurtful, painful, and bad. So be careful out there, y'all.
The best part, though, was her not understanding why I was upset...sigh...oh well.
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I broked up with a bipolar chic while she was in one of her more serious mood swings.. and by "I broke up with" I mean she told me she never wanted to see me again, and I agreed and left. When relationships start not being too great, depending on the situation, ending is a great idea. Another good idea, don't do exclusive dating. If you guys like each other that much, you can always switch. It's more awkward to go backwards.
Especially if you're young and in the high-school age range. It isn't very natural for you to date just 1 - 3 people over your high school career. You're supposed to learn and practice some social skillz, eh? Can't do that if all you do is date 3 people. You learn more about yourself too. *NOTE* dating just one person is also acceptable, and can save you lots of stress and trouble, it just means you'll probably be less "experienced."
I broked up with a bipolar chic while she was in one of her more serious mood swings.. and by "I broke up with" I mean she told me she never wanted to see me again, and I agreed and left. When relationships start not being too great, depending on the situation, ending is a great idea. Another good idea, don't do exclusive dating. If you guys like each other that much, you can always switch. It's more awkward to go backwards.
Especially if you're young and in the high-school age range. It isn't very natural for you to date just 1 - 3 people over your high school career. You're supposed to learn and practice some social skillz, eh? Can't do that if all you do is date 3 people. You learn more about yourself too. *NOTE* dating just one person is also acceptable, and can save you lots of stress and trouble, it just means you'll probably be less "experienced." <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
How about dating 0?
[/me cries over shyness and missed oppurtunities]
....bah. I'll go with 0 is also an acceptable number for social outcasts, people that don't care, people that don't like US high school students and probably some troll people or something.
You're going to lost that girl
If you don't take her out tonight
she's going to change her mind
And I will take her out tonight
And I will treat her kind
You're going to lose that girl
You're going to lose that girl
If you don't treat her right, my friend
You're going to find her gone
'Cause I will treat her right and then
You'll be the lonely one
You're going to lose that girl
You're going to lose that girl
You're going to lose
I'll make a point of taking her away from you
Yeah, the way you treat her, what else can I do
You're going to lose that girl
You're going to lose that girl
You're going to lose
I'll make a point of taking her away from you
Yeah, the way you treat her, what else can I do
If you don't take her out tonight
she's going to change her mind
And I will take her out tonight
And I will treat her kind
You're going to lose that girl
You're going to lose that girl
You're going to lose that girl </i>
Oh, you already have. Sorry, sometimes I just get an urge for some Beatles fun.
You know, counting it all together, I dated an exact two girls while in High School, and in retrospect, I thank god that I didn't try to become more 'experienced' in any way.
Honestly, I always found the idea of having to meet a certain 'ratio' ridiculous. Social skills don't correspond to MMORPG skills that get better by repetition, and besides, you can learn to listen to other people without of a relationship, as well.
My opinion is this: Look out for yourself, realize your own worth, and don't sell yourself below price. If that means that you won't date someone during High School, fine, so be it. Your life isn't going to end after your exams. And, most importantly, it's <i>your</i> life, nobody elses. "Everyone is doing it" is never a good reason to do something.
Destroyer, better luck next time.
Too bad I'm not that kind of person...
...sigh...
Being be is a curse...
Oh well, college, here I come!
That's just sick.
shutup nem! im a lvl 10 lovemaker with lvl 23 looks! and lvl 18 sperm. so ner <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
j/k.
Hey, if I want to leave the damn lid up, I will. It's more convenient that way.
That's just sick. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
That isn't sick, it's elitist.
Hey, if I want to leave the damn lid up, I will. It's more convenient that way. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
No, that wasn't the sick part.
/me raids Snidely's fridge.
/em grumbles about his gf breaking up with him recently.
gona go kill nazis to make me hapy again <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif' /><!--endemo-->