<!--QuoteBegin--X_Stickman+Oct 27 2003, 08:46 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (X_Stickman @ Oct 27 2003, 08:46 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I once cut all my knuckles open on this girls teeth. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> WHAT THE?! YOU'RE SICK!
<!--QuoteBegin--.:|AMAS|:. kyliegirl+Oct 27 2003, 02:16 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (.:|AMAS|:. kyliegirl @ Oct 27 2003, 02:16 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> ummm im a las, err female,, err whatever... anywho...
sometimes you shouldnt be too cold.. just enough to show you dont take crap from anyone, not even from her. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Very wise words. Too much interest in a person subconsciously puts them off you since they smell it as 'desperation'.
I had an inkling about your gender, I just didn't want to jump to any conclusions simply because you had 'girl' in your name! Your name does sound familiar though. Did you play the old version of Natural Selection (1.04, I think)? Or The Specialists or something?
<!--QuoteBegin--.:|AMAS|:. kyliegirl+--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (.:|AMAS|:. kyliegirl)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->yeah i was one of those girls who went out with a guy who treated me like crap.. funny how i forgave him for cheating on me !<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
I think many women (more than men) suffer this routine. And I honestly believe it comes from not dating as many different people as possible. Folks settle too early with one person because they want that whole love thing. So they weather all kinds of storms with this one crappy guy for a few brief good moments. Society, and other women, tell them that relationships go like this all the time, so women end up feeling bad for 'jumping ship' when a guy hits them once, or cheats on them once or something. And it breaks my heart to see so many wonderful women with such no-good schmucks.
<!--QuoteBegin--arael_01+Oct 27 2003, 02:59 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (arael_01 @ Oct 27 2003, 02:59 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--><!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I'm sick of hearing this, quite honestly. Females are still humans. Why shouldn't you be able to hit them for the same reasons that you would hit a male? This is probably one of the things planted in society by feminists.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
well for one, whos hit hurts more
if i punched you it would hurt. depending on the female, if they punched you its more likely that it would hurt less
comes down to body stuff ... males = more muscles = hurt more. females = less muscles (most of them) = fragile <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
*waits for flame*
bleh i dun care, i just think, dont hit chicks. Im happy with kylie, and i'd never even think once about hittin her.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> I agree with both points made. But I must also add that I detest how society sanctions violence against males. 'Husband bashing' takes place more often than people think, yet very few people take it seriously when a big rugby player gets beaten up by his wife and can't lay a finger on her or else have his arse hauled to jail.
Music videos, advertising, films, telly programmes (I just saw an episode of <i><b>Friends</b></i> where Rachel used a rolled up newspaper to go mental on Ross), etc. simply give credence to the myth that a woman hitting a man = OK. Well let me break it to you now, it does NOT equal OK. OK? If a woman slaps or punches me in my face, she will feel the force of my prevailing arm, just as any man would. Mm'kay?
The topic of hitting chicks always makes me think of The Way of the Gun, near the begning of the movie during the parking lot scene. If you haven't seen it you won't know what I'm talking about but its hilarious, by the way it's a really cool movie.
Ahhh, the complex and infinitely perplexing mind of the female human.
The only thing i could say is that each girl is different... and by different i mean DIFFERENT.
I've seen women brush off nice guys and go for the freaks that seem like future wife beaters.
I've been given numbers, only to have the girl upset that i called her (She put her number on my car's windshield with her number and a big lipstick mark in the shape of lips <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif'><!--endemo--> )
I've had women literally get into their car and peel out of a parking lot because i said "Hi"... Then again, being 6' 8" in a dark liquor parking lot... damn, next time i gotta think where i am and who i am.
Relationships in anyway shape or form costs lots of time, and lots of money... niether i have because i am in college (no money) and post here to much (no time <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> ).
BTW, women, plz dont ever start something with a guy because you think, you "THINK" you can change him... people dont change, and they dont want to change.
I feel the pain of the org poster, I too have had this happen.
Short story:
me and a Pal were visiting a budy. Pal and I met 2 girls, played Strip poker, they joked about getting laid and were excited, both very drunk. The room mate of the one girl comes home after drinking 32 shots, pukes every where, the girls get up and maybe go to the other girls room, we will never know...
DITCHED!
I have a very nice GF now, but was alone for 2 years. I hear you loud and clear!
<!--QuoteBegin--Trevelyan+Oct 27 2003, 09:12 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Trevelyan @ Oct 27 2003, 09:12 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I've been given numbers, only to have the girl upset that i called her <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I recently spent 3 hours in the company of a lovely lass. I thought we got on well. When I called her that weekend, she didn't answer my calls, she'd switched her phone off, etc. Suddenly I realised that I'd made 7 calls and more than 2 text messages to her in the space of 3 days. This ended up making me look like a needy sod, when in fact I just wanted to know why she had decided to give me the brush-off. Terrible stuff. Perhaps I should have flat out told her I liked her instead of communicating it by subterfuge...
I thought I had 'closure', but lately I've just had her in the back of my mind. I ended up on a website that her ex runs! I didn't realise it until I contacted him by e-mail asking for his real name, and telling him what <i><b>I</b></i> thought of as his real name. He confirmed it. EEK! She went down to see him (for a final fling I think), and I think he must have made some declaration of undying love.
Ahhh, the depths of despair & anguish women put me through... Thank God for Black Metal. <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/confused.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused.gif'><!--endemo-->
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<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->My point is, if the time comes to hurt someone, I don't discriminate against sex. If I'm punching you, you deserved it, anyway. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
true, but some guys hit wives/gf just cause they want to, and they know they cant take the hit.
Trying to get a woman to like me seems like too much hard work. Women never go for 'nice guys'. I can't seem to get that confident mix of vibrant & fun that woman seem amenable to. I've never gone out on the pull in my life. Whereas most guys start at school, age 16 or something, and practise getting shot down, etc. I have now hit 27 and have not really 'tried it on' with a woman in that sort of context. I wouldn't describe my interests as 'bar-centric', and none of my mates seem to like that sort of thing.
Basically, approaching a woman in town (I saw one who looked really interesting yesterday), even if simply to start a conversation and then walk away, just scares the bejezus out of me! When women get to know me, they always call me a 'nice guy', as though I don't harbour desires for them like other guys do!
My sister dragged me to a jumble sale a few days ago. I met one of her work colleagues there - a 30-something married woman, very attractive, name of Bernie (Bernadette). I knew nothing could come of it, but I figured I'd practise my Seductive Man technique on her. We shook hands, and I kept hold of her hand for longer than necessary, while talking to her looking her direct in her eye. Then I squeezed her hand and let it go. Later, I had a brief talk to her about where to get decent guys' clothes at jumble sales (she goes to a lot of these things, see). Then I left.
All in all, I must have spoken to her for all of 2 minutes. Yesterday my sister told me that Bernie really liked me and called me 'polite' and 'a gentleman'. What the hell do I put out there? That makes meeting me briefly make me seem like 'a gentleman'? Gosh durnit! <!--emo&:angry:--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/mad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='mad.gif'><!--endemo-->
Whoops. Didn't mean to turn this into a confessional! <img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/style_images/2/icon6.gif' border='0' alt='user posted image'>
Sounds a bit to me like you're too subtle. Unfortunately you can be great at spotting people having an interest in other people but when it comes down to people being attracted to you personally most people are pretty blind ^^; I'm pretty good at spotting 'couples' in the making but I couldn't spot someone trying to chat me up a mile off unless they're really obvious. Happened not too long ago in a restraunt actually... one of the staff there was really nice to me and stuff and when we left my friends were all 'they were sooo into you' and I hadn't even noticed. You'd think the fact they 'accidentally' gave a size larger pizza than I ordered while still only charging me for the lower size, plus the free refills for a drink that doesn't get them and the triple amounts of usual amounts of after-dinner minty things would've clued me in =s
Anyways, easier said than done but I think you need to be a bit more to the point... talk about them more, show with your body language that you're interested and throw in a few compliments. Just keep upping the ante until it clicks and make sure you ask them out or something before you walk away lol. Try and not be so shy in future, it's cute and all but it won't get you where you obviously want to go <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo-->
Buckle your belt, puff out your chest and be bold!!! XD
<!--QuoteBegin--Geminosity+Oct 28 2003, 04:14 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Geminosity @ Oct 28 2003, 04:14 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Try and not be so shy in future, it's cute and all but it won't get you where you obviously want to go <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo-->
Buckle your belt, puff out your chest and be bold!!! XD <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Bold! And brave like my name! <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif'><!--endemo--> I've grown up all 'shy' and have no idea how to go about acting bold without seeming like a desperate & horny b'stardo! <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif'><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin--Geminosity+Oct 28 2003, 11:14 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Geminosity @ Oct 28 2003, 11:14 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I'm pretty good at spotting 'couples' in the making but I couldn't spot someone trying to chat me up a mile off unless they're really obvious. Happened not too long ago in a restraunt actually... one of the staff there was really nice to me and stuff and when we left my friends were all 'they were sooo into you' and I hadn't even noticed. You'd think the fact they 'accidentally' gave a size larger pizza than I ordered while still only charging me for the lower size, plus the free refills for a drink that doesn't get them and the triple amounts of usual amounts of after-dinner minty things would've clued me in =s <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Maybe zie was just really, really nice? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin--Lord Fanny-[MacH]+Oct 28 2003, 04:34 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Lord Fanny-[MacH] @ Oct 28 2003, 04:34 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Punch her in the face and play Sir Mix-A-Lot. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I don't think that'll work, somehow. Women don't respond well to music while unconscious!
I just noticed this today: the less attention a pretty girl gives me, the more I like her. This is a cruel paradox. I just want what I can't have. <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif'><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin--eediot+Oct 28 2003, 11:50 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (eediot @ Oct 28 2003, 11:50 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> infinitum, you say that every two posts or something, waiting for somebody to laugh.
its still not funny, not relevent...
so all of lifes problems can be attributed to some kind of stereotypical problem within the 'victim'?
'teen-angst' 'mid-life crisis' 'crazy 20-something year old hooliganism'
well i cant see where im going with this, but the essential point is 'youre an idiot' <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Perfect.
But I want you to do it again. Say it with more....punctuation.
That is why it is called a stereotype or a cliche, and I am simply making jest of it.
The robber with the bag of money, the snooty frenchmen with his barette, the angsty teenager with nothing better to do then whine about something.
I'm sorry that my sense of humour doesn't appeal to you, nor do I follow up every joke with a smiley face so you 'know he was joking when he said that' My sense of humour is dry, bland wit, filled with cynicism and sarcasm. It's just observational humour.
Don't take any personal offense to it... you really can't denote the demeanour of my post either, it's all in good fun.
Hell that's life for ya, full of people who want to categorise you into a little box and put you on the shelf so they can have some form of control over you, so no matter how hard 'fight da powah' you'll always just be box number 5456-d... Have some smiley faces <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/confused.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif'><!--endemo-->
FurySilver Fish Hand CatchJoin Date: 2003-08-14Member: 19673Members, Constellation
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Posted: Oct 29 2003, 06:02 PM and it's 3am, and i'm going insane! WEE <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
's what u get for bein american <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
sif post at 6pm and claim it to be the morning <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif'><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin--Bosnian+Oct 29 2003, 07:22 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Bosnian @ Oct 29 2003, 07:22 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I just noticed this today: the less attention a pretty girl gives me, the more I like her. This is a cruel paradox. I just want what I can't have. <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif'><!--endemo--><!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif'><!--endemo--> know that pretty much - but it improved once i recognised that thees girls are the most interesting ones - until you know them .... then they start getting very normal, sometimes supernormal.
Guys are much cooler in every way. <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif'><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I had an inkling about your gender, I just didn't want to jump to any conclusions simply because you had 'girl' in your name! Your name does sound familiar though. Did you play the old version of Natural Selection (1.04, I think)? Or The Specialists or something?<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
yes i played ns right when it came out. love the game !!!
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Trying to get a woman to like me seems like too much hard work. Women never go for 'nice guys'. I can't seem to get that confident mix of vibrant & fun that woman seem amenable to. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Never Try to impress a girl. thats what turns most girls off, the fact you *acting* it out to them.. be yourself.. if they cant accept you for who you really are, the **** them...
thats all I do. act myself. if guys cant accept me as i am, then its their problem, because you will never change who you are.
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I've grown up all 'shy' and have no idea how to go about acting bold without seeming like a desperate & horny b'stardo!<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
youll find a girl for ya <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo--> shy guys are the best to know i reckon <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> but seriously dont turn into a sex freak!!!
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I just noticed this today: the less attention a pretty girl gives me, the more I like her. This is a cruel paradox. I just want what I can't have.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
you are seriously thriving out there arent you? why not try and talk to the girls who pay less attention or sumfin.. either that or you doing sumfin which makes em pay less attention ?? either that or your going for the girls who wear the latest fashions from the dolly magazines O.o !!!!! seriously not the type to bother with..
i remember a few yrs back in school. i wear army pants everyday, then one day, it came out in dolly magazine i didnt know i dotn read the stupid thing, but i got to school and girls were wearing camo shorts or sumfin and my friend goes "wow your finally getting into the monthly fashions" and im like O.o "WTH u on about? i wear these everyday!"
damn fashion freaks . all they care about is what next months fashion is.. really stupid!
<!--QuoteBegin--.:|AMAS|:. kyliegirl+Oct 29 2003, 08:39 AM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (.:|AMAS|:. kyliegirl @ Oct 29 2003, 08:39 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--><!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Trying to get a woman to like me seems like too much hard work. Women never go for 'nice guys'. I can't seem to get that confident mix of vibrant & fun that woman seem amenable to. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Never Try to impress a girl. thats what turns most girls off, the fact you *acting* it out to them.. be yourself.. if they cant accept you for who you really are, the **** them...
thats all I do. act myself. if guys cant accept me as i am, then its their problem, because you will never change who you are.
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I've grown up all 'shy' and have no idea how to go about acting bold without seeming like a desperate & horny b'stardo!<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
youll find a girl for ya <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo--> shy guys are the best to know i reckon <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> but seriously dont turn into a sex freak!!!
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I just noticed this today: the less attention a pretty girl gives me, the more I like her. This is a cruel paradox. I just want what I can't have.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
you are seriously thriving out there arent you? why not try and talk to the girls who pay less attention or sumfin.. either that or you doing sumfin which makes em pay less attention ?? either that or your going for the girls who wear the latest fashions from the dolly magazines O.o !!!!! seriously not the type to bother with..
i remember a few yrs back in school. i wear army pants everyday, then one day, it came out in dolly magazine i didnt know i dotn read the stupid thing, but i got to school and girls were wearing camo shorts or sumfin and my friend goes "wow your finally getting into the monthly fashions" and im like O.o "WTH u on about? i wear these everyday!"
damn fashion freaks . all they care about is what next months fashion is.. really stupid!<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Women like confidence? Sure, women will like confidence... if the woman happens to be into confident guys. Total agreement with kylie here... I mean, I don't get it. It's always as if there's some "magic formula" to picking up girls. As kylie says here, just act yourself and the girls WILL be attracted to you mostly because you have the confidence to BE yourself, regardless if your shy or forthright or anything. As with kylie, again, if the girl can't accept you for what you are, she doesn't deserve you anyway.
Sex really isn't all that cracked up to be unless you do it with someone you're into. Even masturbation is totally overrated after that.
Heh, those army pants remind me of the whole indie kid thing... The indie rockers and emo kids all want to have black hair nowadays, and I was born with it. I'm on the cutting edge of fashion, by virtue of my parents being chinese!
As for fashion, that's the EASIEST THING for a guy to work with... The easiest way to look better is to accessorize. Men's accessories are cheap. Add a bracelet on the other wrist to offset your watch. Wear a dark necklace to offset your lighter shirts and light colored necklaces to offset the darker ones. And don't wear the same crap everyday. It's only color matching, it really isn't that hard. This FORUM has a nice color matching scheme to it, even. I quickly found out that dressing well for a guy is cheap, easy to do, and it doesn't take a damn sight of your time... it's the best thing ever. Your average NS game will run twice the amount of time it takes to run out to a TJ Maxx and get better pants for 7 bucks. That's right, TJ friggin' Maxx. It isn't hard and it isn't expensive. Ditch a new video game and update your wardrobe for the same price. Worked for me.
I... I just gave fashion advice. Times have changed since my days as a Comp Sci major.
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<!--QuoteBegin--Xanieth+Oct 29 2003, 03:34 PM--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Xanieth @ Oct 29 2003, 03:34 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I wear the same hoodie every day. I wash it, of course. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I do the same. And i don't (i don't really do anything to get it dirty tbh)
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WHAT THE?! YOU'RE SICK!
sometimes you shouldnt be too cold.. just enough to show you dont take crap from anyone, not even from her. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Very wise words. Too much interest in a person subconsciously puts them off you since they smell it as 'desperation'.
I had an inkling about your gender, I just didn't want to jump to any conclusions simply because you had 'girl' in your name! Your name does sound familiar though. Did you play the old version of Natural Selection (1.04, I think)? Or The Specialists or something?
<!--QuoteBegin--.:|AMAS|:. kyliegirl+--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (.:|AMAS|:. kyliegirl)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->yeah i was one of those girls who went out with a guy who treated me like crap.. funny how i forgave him for cheating on me !<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
I think many women (more than men) suffer this routine. And I honestly believe it comes from not dating as many different people as possible. Folks settle too early with one person because they want that whole love thing. So they weather all kinds of storms with this one crappy guy for a few brief good moments. Society, and other women, tell them that relationships go like this all the time, so women end up feeling bad for 'jumping ship' when a guy hits them once, or cheats on them once or something. And it breaks my heart to see so many wonderful women with such no-good schmucks.
well for one, whos hit hurts more
if i punched you it would hurt.
depending on the female, if they punched you its more likely that it would hurt less
comes down to body stuff ... males = more muscles = hurt more. females = less muscles (most of them) = fragile <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
*waits for flame*
bleh i dun care, i just think, dont hit chicks.
Im happy with kylie, and i'd never even think once about hittin her.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
I agree with both points made. But I must also add that I detest how society sanctions violence against males. 'Husband bashing' takes place more often than people think, yet very few people take it seriously when a big rugby player gets beaten up by his wife and can't lay a finger on her or else have his arse hauled to jail.
Music videos, advertising, films, telly programmes (I just saw an episode of <i><b>Friends</b></i> where Rachel used a rolled up newspaper to go mental on Ross), etc. simply give credence to the myth that a woman hitting a man = OK. Well let me break it to you now, it does NOT equal OK. OK? If a woman slaps or punches me in my face, she will feel the force of my prevailing arm, just as any man would. Mm'kay?
Ahhh, the complex and infinitely perplexing mind of the female human.
The only thing i could say is that each girl is different... and by different i mean DIFFERENT.
I've seen women brush off nice guys and go for the freaks that seem like future wife beaters.
I've been given numbers, only to have the girl upset that i called her (She put her number on my car's windshield with her number and a big lipstick mark in the shape of lips <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif'><!--endemo--> )
I've had women literally get into their car and peel out of a parking lot because i said "Hi"...
Then again, being 6' 8" in a dark liquor parking lot... damn, next time i gotta think where i am and who i am.
Relationships in anyway shape or form costs lots of time, and lots of money... niether i have because i am in college (no money) and post here to much (no time <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> ).
BTW, women, plz dont ever start something with a guy because you think, you "THINK" you can change him... people dont change, and they dont want to change.
Short story:
me and a Pal were visiting a budy. Pal and I met 2 girls, played Strip poker, they joked about getting laid and were excited, both very drunk.
The room mate of the one girl comes home after drinking 32 shots, pukes every where, the girls get up and maybe go to the other girls room, we will never know...
DITCHED!
I have a very nice GF now, but was alone for 2 years.
I hear you loud and clear!
I recently spent 3 hours in the company of a lovely lass. I thought we got on well. When I called her that weekend, she didn't answer my calls, she'd switched her phone off, etc. Suddenly I realised that I'd made 7 calls and more than 2 text messages to her in the space of 3 days. This ended up making me look like a needy sod, when in fact I just wanted to know why she had decided to give me the brush-off. Terrible stuff. Perhaps I should have flat out told her I liked her instead of communicating it by subterfuge...
I thought I had 'closure', but lately I've just had her in the back of my mind. I ended up on a website that her ex runs! I didn't realise it until I contacted him by e-mail asking for his real name, and telling him what <i><b>I</b></i> thought of as his real name. He confirmed it. EEK! She went down to see him (for a final fling I think), and I think he must have made some declaration of undying love.
Ahhh, the depths of despair & anguish women put me through... Thank God for Black Metal. <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/confused.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused.gif'><!--endemo-->
true, but some guys hit wives/gf just cause they want to, and they know they cant take the hit.
Basically, approaching a woman in town (I saw one who looked really interesting yesterday), even if simply to start a conversation and then walk away, just scares the bejezus out of me! When women get to know me, they always call me a 'nice guy', as though I don't harbour desires for them like other guys do!
My sister dragged me to a jumble sale a few days ago. I met one of her work colleagues there - a 30-something married woman, very attractive, name of Bernie (Bernadette). I knew nothing could come of it, but I figured I'd practise my Seductive Man technique on her. We shook hands, and I kept hold of her hand for longer than necessary, while talking to her looking her direct in her eye. Then I squeezed her hand and let it go. Later, I had a brief talk to her about where to get decent guys' clothes at jumble sales (she goes to a lot of these things, see). Then I left.
All in all, I must have spoken to her for all of 2 minutes. Yesterday my sister told me that Bernie really liked me and called me 'polite' and 'a gentleman'. What the hell do I put out there? That makes meeting me briefly make me seem like 'a gentleman'? Gosh durnit! <!--emo&:angry:--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/mad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='mad.gif'><!--endemo-->
Whoops. Didn't mean to turn this into a confessional! <img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/style_images/2/icon6.gif' border='0' alt='user posted image'>
Sounds a bit to me like you're too subtle. Unfortunately you can be great at spotting people having an interest in other people but when it comes down to people being attracted to you personally most people are pretty blind ^^;
I'm pretty good at spotting 'couples' in the making but I couldn't spot someone trying to chat me up a mile off unless they're really obvious. Happened not too long ago in a restraunt actually... one of the staff there was really nice to me and stuff and when we left my friends were all 'they were sooo into you' and I hadn't even noticed. You'd think the fact they 'accidentally' gave a size larger pizza than I ordered while still only charging me for the lower size, plus the free refills for a drink that doesn't get them and the triple amounts of usual amounts of after-dinner minty things would've clued me in =s
Anyways, easier said than done but I think you need to be a bit more to the point... talk about them more, show with your body language that you're interested and throw in a few compliments. Just keep upping the ante until it clicks and make sure you ask them out or something before you walk away lol. Try and not be so shy in future, it's cute and all but it won't get you where you obviously want to go <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo-->
Buckle your belt, puff out your chest and be bold!!! XD
Buckle your belt, puff out your chest and be bold!!! XD <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Bold! And brave like my name! <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif'><!--endemo--> I've grown up all 'shy' and have no idea how to go about acting bold without seeming like a desperate & horny b'stardo! <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif'><!--endemo-->
Maybe zie was just really, really nice? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
I don't think that'll work, somehow. Women don't respond well to music while unconscious!
Your comments are still not funny, nor relevent.
So all of lifes problems can be attributed to some kind of stereotypical problem within the 'victim'?
For e.g.
- 'teen-angst'
- 'mid-life crisis'
- 'crazy 20-something year old hooliganism'
Well, I can't see where I'm going with this, but the essential point is: 'You're an idiot'.
edit: sigh
its still not funny, not relevent...
so all of lifes problems can be attributed to some kind of stereotypical problem within the 'victim'?
'teen-angst'
'mid-life crisis'
'crazy 20-something year old hooliganism'
well i cant see where im going with this, but the essential point is 'youre an idiot' <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Perfect.
But I want you to do it again. Say it with more....punctuation.
ACTION!
The robber with the bag of money, the snooty frenchmen with his barette, the angsty teenager with nothing better to do then whine about something.
I'm sorry that my sense of humour doesn't appeal to you, nor do I follow up every joke with a smiley face so you 'know he was joking when he said that'
My sense of humour is dry, bland wit, filled with cynicism and sarcasm. It's just observational humour.
Don't take any personal offense to it... you really can't denote the demeanour of my post either, it's all in good fun.
Hell that's life for ya, full of people who want to categorise you into a little box and put you on the shelf so they can have some form of control over you, so no matter how hard 'fight da powah' you'll always just be box number 5456-d... Have some smiley faces <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/confused.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif'><!--endemo-->
/scratches head
...Just in case, I mean.
I personally like the dry humor Infinitum offers. Of course, I am almost completely emotionally void.
and it's 3am, and i'm going insane! WEE!
Jammer, that sux for you. the chick thing. You should go have a long game-fest to forget her though.
and it's 3am, and i'm going insane! WEE
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's what u get for bein american <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo-->
sif post at 6pm and claim it to be the morning <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif'><!--endemo-->
<!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif'><!--endemo--> know that pretty much - but it improved once i recognised that thees girls are the most interesting ones - until you know them .... then they start getting very normal, sometimes supernormal.
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I had an inkling about your gender, I just didn't want to jump to any conclusions simply because you had 'girl' in your name! Your name does sound familiar though. Did you play the old version of Natural Selection (1.04, I think)? Or The Specialists or something?<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
yes i played ns right when it came out. love the game !!!
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->Trying to get a woman to like me seems like too much hard work. Women never go for 'nice guys'. I can't seem to get that confident mix of vibrant & fun that woman seem amenable to. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Never Try to impress a girl. thats what turns most girls off, the fact you *acting* it out to them.. be yourself.. if they cant accept you for who you really are, the **** them...
thats all I do. act myself. if guys cant accept me as i am, then its their problem, because you will never change who you are.
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I've grown up all 'shy' and have no idea how to go about acting bold without seeming like a desperate & horny b'stardo!<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
youll find a girl for ya <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo--> shy guys are the best to know i reckon <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> but seriously dont turn into a sex freak!!!
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I just noticed this today: the less attention a pretty girl gives me, the more I like her. This is a cruel paradox. I just want what I can't have.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
you are seriously thriving out there arent you? why not try and talk to the girls who pay less attention or sumfin.. either that or you doing sumfin which makes em pay less attention ?? either that or your going for the girls who wear the latest fashions from the dolly magazines O.o !!!!! seriously not the type to bother with..
i remember a few yrs back in school. i wear army pants everyday, then one day, it came out in dolly magazine i didnt know i dotn read the stupid thing, but i got to school and girls were wearing camo shorts or sumfin and my friend goes "wow your finally getting into the monthly fashions" and im like O.o "WTH u on about? i wear these everyday!"
damn fashion freaks . all they care about is what next months fashion is.. really stupid!
Never Try to impress a girl. thats what turns most girls off, the fact you *acting* it out to them.. be yourself.. if they cant accept you for who you really are, the **** them...
thats all I do. act myself. if guys cant accept me as i am, then its their problem, because you will never change who you are.
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I've grown up all 'shy' and have no idea how to go about acting bold without seeming like a desperate & horny b'stardo!<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
youll find a girl for ya <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo--> shy guys are the best to know i reckon <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif'><!--endemo--> but seriously dont turn into a sex freak!!!
<!--QuoteBegin--></span><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> </td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin-->I just noticed this today: the less attention a pretty girl gives me, the more I like her. This is a cruel paradox. I just want what I can't have.<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
you are seriously thriving out there arent you? why not try and talk to the girls who pay less attention or sumfin.. either that or you doing sumfin which makes em pay less attention ?? either that or your going for the girls who wear the latest fashions from the dolly magazines O.o !!!!! seriously not the type to bother with..
i remember a few yrs back in school. i wear army pants everyday, then one day, it came out in dolly magazine i didnt know i dotn read the stupid thing, but i got to school and girls were wearing camo shorts or sumfin and my friend goes "wow your finally getting into the monthly fashions" and im like O.o "WTH u on about? i wear these everyday!"
damn fashion freaks . all they care about is what next months fashion is.. really stupid!<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Women like confidence? Sure, women will like confidence... if the woman happens to be into confident guys. Total agreement with kylie here... I mean, I don't get it. It's always as if there's some "magic formula" to picking up girls. As kylie says here, just act yourself and the girls WILL be attracted to you mostly because you have the confidence to BE yourself, regardless if your shy or forthright or anything. As with kylie, again, if the girl can't accept you for what you are, she doesn't deserve you anyway.
Sex really isn't all that cracked up to be unless you do it with someone you're into. Even masturbation is totally overrated after that.
Heh, those army pants remind me of the whole indie kid thing... The indie rockers and emo kids all want to have black hair nowadays, and I was born with it. I'm on the cutting edge of fashion, by virtue of my parents being chinese!
As for fashion, that's the EASIEST THING for a guy to work with... The easiest way to look better is to accessorize. Men's accessories are cheap. Add a bracelet on the other wrist to offset your watch. Wear a dark necklace to offset your lighter shirts and light colored necklaces to offset the darker ones. And don't wear the same crap everyday. It's only color matching, it really isn't that hard. This FORUM has a nice color matching scheme to it, even. I quickly found out that dressing well for a guy is cheap, easy to do, and it doesn't take a damn sight of your time... it's the best thing ever. Your average NS game will run twice the amount of time it takes to run out to a TJ Maxx and get better pants for 7 bucks. That's right, TJ friggin' Maxx. It isn't hard and it isn't expensive. Ditch a new video game and update your wardrobe for the same price. Worked for me.
I... I just gave fashion advice. Times have changed since my days as a Comp Sci major.
I do the same. And i don't (i don't really do anything to get it dirty tbh)