I Hate Girls.
<div class="IPBDescription">Oh boy! an E/N Thread!</div> Normally, I keep my private life out of the forums. This is an exception. I'm just that annoyed.
Ok, a little back story. I'm a Freshman in college. Senior year, I had been doing exceptionally well with the ladies. I expected college to continue that trend. It didn't. I don't drink or party (Except for Party Hard!). I just have principles against it. Needless to say, my social scene is somewhat blaise because I go to school in the New Jersey of New York. (Poughkeepsie). Still, I have a good number of friends.
Anyway, the Anime Society and Computer Club run this event called 'Gaming Day'. Its a giant lan party with video games. They had a whole room set up with 3 sets of DDR (One of which is a PC that has a hacked PC version with every DDR song EVER). anyone, this cute girl is there. We start talking, flirting, DDRing. She doesn't drink, smoke, she's kinda sorta into Anime, funny. Its great. We did this for a couple hours. Its obvious we're flirting pretty heavily. She goes to leave and she invites me to come with her. So we end up back at her dorm in the lobby, watching the world series. It ends, and about 15 minutes later she says "I need to get my CD!" or something.
She doesn't come back.
Eventually, her roommate and I check around. We can't find her, she's not in her room.
WTH? I got ditched? My friends said there were pretty obvious signs and were suprised.
Naturally, I'm a little annoyed. Its just frustrating from my perspective because I don't know what happened. She just kinda ditched me! Argh!
Girls = EVIL
The worst part is, I never scored the digits. :-/
Its a small school though. I've seen her around alot, most likely will again soon.
(Oh, the worst part? I turns out BOTH my room mates are home this weekend. WHY GOD WHY!?)
EDIT
I should mention she gave me hairsex, when I sat in front of her.
Hairsex: scratching someone's head, playing with their hair... such a turn on. :-)
Ok, a little back story. I'm a Freshman in college. Senior year, I had been doing exceptionally well with the ladies. I expected college to continue that trend. It didn't. I don't drink or party (Except for Party Hard!). I just have principles against it. Needless to say, my social scene is somewhat blaise because I go to school in the New Jersey of New York. (Poughkeepsie). Still, I have a good number of friends.
Anyway, the Anime Society and Computer Club run this event called 'Gaming Day'. Its a giant lan party with video games. They had a whole room set up with 3 sets of DDR (One of which is a PC that has a hacked PC version with every DDR song EVER). anyone, this cute girl is there. We start talking, flirting, DDRing. She doesn't drink, smoke, she's kinda sorta into Anime, funny. Its great. We did this for a couple hours. Its obvious we're flirting pretty heavily. She goes to leave and she invites me to come with her. So we end up back at her dorm in the lobby, watching the world series. It ends, and about 15 minutes later she says "I need to get my CD!" or something.
She doesn't come back.
Eventually, her roommate and I check around. We can't find her, she's not in her room.
WTH? I got ditched? My friends said there were pretty obvious signs and were suprised.
Naturally, I'm a little annoyed. Its just frustrating from my perspective because I don't know what happened. She just kinda ditched me! Argh!
Girls = EVIL
The worst part is, I never scored the digits. :-/
Its a small school though. I've seen her around alot, most likely will again soon.
(Oh, the worst part? I turns out BOTH my room mates are home this weekend. WHY GOD WHY!?)
EDIT
I should mention she gave me hairsex, when I sat in front of her.
Hairsex: scratching someone's head, playing with their hair... such a turn on. :-)
Comments
My attitude is to generally act towards chicks like they have acted towards me: Blow them off every chance I get without seeming like an ****.
Theres this one chick who keeps asking me what "All your base are belong to us means." I told her. And she keeps asking. So I just told her to stop being lazy and look it up on Google. Then she asked me what Google was.... I witheld my shock until I was able to make it outside without saying another word to her. I don't think I came off like a jerk, more like somone who was sick of catering to people who won't go out and answer their own questions.
Oh yeah, before you go after this girl, find out as much as you can about her. Her blowing you off could be the best thing that ever happened to you if shes some kind of psycho.
Maybe something really important happened when she went to fetch her CD.
Well Done!
soo true
Girls = EVIL
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Isn't it a bit late in the game to realize this? I learned that back in third grade.
Anyways, the point of my post is, if she's the type of girl who does that, regardless of her excuses she will give you, and she WILL give them to you, forget about her, and move on before its too late...
Yeah, in todays world I have to agree, a lot of...girls without self-respect these days.
In all honesty I'd rather stay single than take advantage of a girl doing sometihng JUST because she thinks I WANT it.
Which means this isn't real proof <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo-->
Which means this isn't real proof <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><span class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
but you see, you have to spend time AS you are spending money. Not spend money, stop, spend time, stop. Thus the only real way of representing this would be multiplication, an average amount of money is wasted per unit time.
never mix social things with math...it gets ugly like this <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin.gif'><!--endemo-->
**** <!--emo&:angry:--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/mad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='mad.gif'><!--endemo--> Some of us have never even got to that stage.
Resentment & pent-up bitterness only exacerbated (not relieved) by the most poignant & beautiful of Black Metal songs <i>aside</i>, women have this tendency to play games where they never flat out say they don't like you in <i>that</i> way. They give you the brush-off until you get the message. This happened to me recently.
The only remedy? What Americans call 'closure'. Accept, truly accept, in your head that nothing will come of this. Then move on. Move on to other women. After you've dated/shagged half a dozen or so, then stop and think whether you still miss this girl. If not, then wahey. And if you still do, then you should have enough practice under your belt to 'pull' her more efficiently.
Or something. These things have a way of working out in real life in a way which has flummoxed me completely. Blastbeat-laden Black Metal helps ('The Change' by Peccatum (utterly fantastic), early Impaled Nazarene, Marduk, etc.) <!--emo&;)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/wink.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wink.gif'><!--endemo-->.
All my best, I hope you sort this problem out.
Myself, I don't hate women, I just resent my social impotence when it comes to interacting with them in <i>that</i> sort of a context.
If I can offer any advice to you, it would be this:
GROW A BEARD.
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Actually, get longer hair. Not dirty, greasy shoulder lengthy. Mid-Neck, shaggy hair. It works :-)
And yes Infinitum.
*ANGST*
however i dont get along greatly with the women, however i do think its mostly cause if my own shy'ness and non-social'ness.
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I should mention she gave me hairsex, when I sat in front of her.
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... I'm scared....
P.S
I really can't do quotes either.
I saw the girl in the Cafeteria, but I forced her to intiate contact. She did, playfully poking me and running. Yes, thats good. I chase her, poke back. We talk for a bit. She apologized, said she felt bad and she got distracted (and hit by a truck :-) ) She's about to leave. I say "Can I get your extension?" (Campus phones have on-campus extensions in addition to regular numbers).
She says "Oh, why do you want that?", knowing the entire time WHY I wanted it. So that put me in an akward position. She then says something like "Look it up in the directory." I say "I don't know your last name." She say "Oh. Well, it starts with an F. Find it."
I'm in utter disbelief. She chimes in "I'm serious."
WHY DO GIRLS NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET? JESUS TAP-DANCING CHRIST, WHOSE SICK IDEAS WAS IT FOR GUYS TO LIKE GIRLS?
Question is... do you think it's worth it or is she setting the obstacles too high for you? =3
yes