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<div class="IPBDescription">bad experiences.. im just writing..</div> hey guys sorry this is pretty much shite.. just i am feeling abit low atm...

i went on a break with with my g.f a while back and it was pretty much apparent that we were going to get back togetehr or at least she thought that.... during the break i thoguth alot and grew up alot.. it took help from some people to help me realise things but our 2 year relationship was dead... and thats how it was.. so today at around 2:30 i went round and did the deed..

she led me upstairs.. all shaky and nervous.. and stood there with puppyeyes looking up at me.. and i told her straight out.. and the look.. i swear it has never cut deeper... and she broke into tears and then yeah... then i being the *************** that i am started crying.. i mean this is 2 years gone.. thats alot of history...

i then went dotnstairs and told her mom, i got on really well with her parents etc and she loves her mom so figured they could talk and so her mom went up to see her.. and so here i am...

i am happy cos i did the right thing.. she is having a rough life at the moment rellies in hospital etc.. but yeah i couldnt leave it.. it is wrong.. so now i feel like the meanest guy in the world for doing this to her

and im sorry for this post it was just an attempt to clear your head.. i keep getting feelings of regret.. but i know they are false.. i mean i know what i had to do.. there was no love there... but i still just regret hurting her so much... cos she is like my best friend

laters.

T

Thansal

congratz wolf, your a good person <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo-->


sucks don't it?


the fact that you could see that you realy were not in love, and that you had the cahones to do it face to face and then talk to her mom is rather impressive.

The fact that you are feeling bad right now shows empathy, it meens that you do care about what other people feel (one of the hardest things to do, I know from experiance).

So, mental pat on the back I guess mate.

You aint a bad guy, Don't tear your self up about it. I hope you manage to keep a good relation ship with her any way

RPG_Jssmfulhud

You did the right thing. The mean thing that you could do was if you stayed with her in a lie. Cheer up! <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo-->

CForrester

Bingo, Thansal.

WoLF, try to be friends with her. I'm still friends with my old girlfriend, even though we broke up rather messily. If it feels like she was your best friend, you should be able to be best friends.

BOO

Ok this is comming from a girl ,so listen up.

You did the right thing. I feel for your ex-GF but it will click in her head in the future that, you did the right thing also.
When you lose something you generally don't think of what the future would have been like. more of the here and now, and for her.
her here and now is that your gone. when it starts dawning on her, and she starts thinking, it will come together for her.
But you did that right thing. Im amazed there are actually guys out there that care. Your a good guy by my books. You know you did the right thing, and somehow the right thing always hurts more. <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad.gif'><!--endemo-->
but the longer you put that off the more it would have hurt, you inside, and her. So just try to talk to her, be friends if you can.That will make her feel like you didnt abandon her, and break up with her for the wrong reasons. If she wants to be friends that is.
also the fact that you went down stairs and told her mum, that takes guts, it also shows that you care alot, your respected by me now. <!--emo&:)--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/smile.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='smile.gif'><!--endemo-->
Sorry to hear bout your troubles.

Coby

I dunno if you, [wolf] remember me from our earlier "trouble" discussions but still, I can clearly say that the life surely can kick some people in the head. Hard.