Rude Behaviour

RentalCorpseRentalCorpse Join Date: 2012-10-16 Member: 162456Members
<div class="IPBDescription">Though its rare, its still an issue.</div>We've all had them in other games: ragers, offenders and people who prefer to insult your mother.

Its a semi-rare occurence in Natural Selection 2 seeing as its in beta, which already kind of limits the playerbase and thus people tend to be nicer, but still I've had my fair share of people I would rather not want to play with. Even clanned people (had one just now, but I will refrain from naming & shaming - I admittedly got baited into a reaction which led to me getting somewhat riled up), which is even the more frustrating as I typically expect people who are clanned to be role models or guides for newer players (seeing as they're generally more experienced). Because this kind of toxic behaviour should not go unpunished (not referring to just clanners). But so far I have never seen a player get kicked or banned from a server, or even given a warning, so I was wondering if there are any server moderation/ admin options currently in the game, and if not if there are any plans for them after release.

Thank you for reading my concerns, and feel free to start a discussion.

-RC
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  • ImbalanxdImbalanxd Join Date: 2011-06-15 Member: 104581Members
    I guess the server admins aren't as uptight as you are.

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  • VolcanoVolcano Join Date: 2011-07-27 Member: 112496Members, Constellation
    Welcome to the Internet
  • MangoMango Join Date: 2012-10-11 Member: 162061Members
    edited October 2012
    When ever I play I turn mics off and just have my music on. Comm's hate me cause I never follow orders hence can't hear them, but It also filters out everyone else complaining on mic. As, for text chat I hardly ever read it if they are raging in text than they have to much time on there hands. I would just ignore them but ban them to the server is very extreme and can be very abusive. I hate admins who think they gods gift to everyone and ban people for the most minor things.
  • RentalCorpseRentalCorpse Join Date: 2012-10-16 Member: 162456Members
    edited October 2012
    <!--quoteo(post=1992236:date=Oct 16 2012, 02:17 PM:name=Imbalanxd)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Imbalanxd @ Oct 16 2012, 02:17 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992236"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->I guess the server admins aren't as uptight as you are.

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    Do explain why you think of me as "uptight". I think my point is very valid.
  • TrCTrC Join Date: 2008-11-30 Member: 65612Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1992247:date=Oct 16 2012, 03:40 PM:name=RentalCorpse)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (RentalCorpse @ Oct 16 2012, 03:40 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992247"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Do explain why you think of me as "uptight". I think my point is very valid.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    You must be new here on internet.
  • swalkswalk Say hello to my little friend. Join Date: 2011-01-20 Member: 78384Members, Squad Five Blue
    This thread would have been so much more fun with a name and description of the incident.
    Though the forums are not for that kind of stuff.
    If you get riled up because someone is raging on public servers, you are the one with a problem.
    Ignore them or find another server to play on.
  • RentalCorpseRentalCorpse Join Date: 2012-10-16 Member: 162456Members
    edited October 2012
    Thats a no. I'm just sick and tired of people dismissing toxic behaviour as acceptable just because "its the internet". Its a problem while everyone regards it as completely normal.
    Just keep your anger issues and insults out of the games people want to have fun in.
  • FappuchinoFappuchino Join Date: 2012-10-10 Member: 162008Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1992259:date=Oct 16 2012, 05:54 AM:name=RentalCorpse)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (RentalCorpse @ Oct 16 2012, 05:54 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992259"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Thats a no. I'm just sick and tired of people dismissing toxic behaviour as acceptable just because "its the internet". Its a problem while everyone regards it as completely normal.
    I'm all for free speech, but keep your anger issues and insults out of the games people want to have fun in.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    May you never play a game that has an allocated budget for mass advertising.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Join Date: 2003-11-28 Member: 23688
    Problem is, what constitutes as "rude" is up to personal opinion.

    This is really an issue for server admins and how they want to police it.
  • PsympleJesterPsympleJester Join Date: 2008-04-06 Member: 64024Members
    Perhaps they arn't really as mad as you are perceiving...

    In the past... jesus how long did I play NS1... *forgets*

    Anyway, in the past god knows how many years of commanding Public games I have developed a strategy.
    Using a mic doesn't work too well if your team don't trust you, when I want something done I put humorous
    insults in-front of my orders in order to get people to listen (it actually works quite well).

    Come on you chicken farts get to double...
    However in the heat of tense situations and lack of imagination I often to resort to the most insulting words I
    can think of, no one normally seems to care as they appreciate I am just stressing the importance of the situation.

    However sometimes people do find it offensive, quite annoying actually, and complain I am raging and flaming
    actually no... I am just trying to do my best to get a group of people I don't know to do as I ask... Often just asking
    nicely doesn't work.

    But yeah, sometimes bullying people to do as you say is essential and there is a right way and a wrong way to do it I suppose
    if you are going to encourage people to play in this way you sorta have to remember to not actually get angry otherwise... You
    just become a raging flamer... xD

    Sorry for the really long post there have been a few threads like this I wanted to post this in.

    Oh and last time I got REALLY angry in NS was when our comm with 1 rt and no upgrades at 13 mins into the game decided to use
    out last 75 res to drop an onos egg and then f4... sadly we almost came back from it... if our comm hadn't screwed us we would have won... xD
  • DJPenguinDJPenguin Useless Join Date: 2003-07-29 Member: 18538Members
    Welcome 162-456, you're just in luck. The devs have taken your feedback seriously and will include fixes to human psychology in the next patch:


    - Reduced player rudeness

    - Increased chance of admins taking action against perpetrators

    - Increased thick skin of players
  • KaptajnKLOKaptajnKLO Join Date: 2012-06-25 Member: 153658Members
    It's up to admins to determine what is acceptable or not. If you don't want to experience rude behavior, then find a server where there are less regulars that are jerks.

    But I mean I can understand your position don't get me wrong I dislike rude ###### too, but I just ignore them or mute them if I have to. I wish you could block text messages too, so I don't have to read all the stupid remarks from idiots.
  • VeNeMVeNeM Join Date: 2002-07-13 Member: 928Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1992267:date=Oct 16 2012, 08:02 AM:name=DJPenguin)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (DJPenguin @ Oct 16 2012, 08:02 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992267"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Welcome 162-456, you're just in luck. The devs have taken your feedback seriously and will include fixes to human psychology in the next patch:


    - Reduced player rudeness

    - Increased chance of admins taking action against perpetrators

    - Increased thick skin of players<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    - reduced snarkiness


    great more nerfs


    -slightly increased sarcasm
  • GaryWolfGaryWolf Join Date: 2012-10-16 Member: 162457Members
    edited October 2012
    I'm kind of on the fence on this one:
    I agree with OP that players should be discouraged from acting like that in some way or another; be it a temp-ban, a kick or whatever.
    However, as someone stated, insults are based on the opinion that something is insulting, and not everyone will agree that this person was being insulting.

    A good fix for this in the past was the always-successful vote-kick. However, I've been playing games recently where players just flat out refuse to even vote for a kick, so I'm not sure what to do about this particular problem... Still, vote-kick seems worth trying out.
  • RentalCorpseRentalCorpse Join Date: 2012-10-16 Member: 162456Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1992261:date=Oct 16 2012, 02:57 PM:name=Fappuchino)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Fappuchino @ Oct 16 2012, 02:57 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992261"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->May you never play a game that has an allocated budget for mass advertising.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    Only competitive multiplayer games have this kind of problem, games I do tend to play a lot, but I'm here hoping the same won't happen to NS2, where the vast majority of the beta playerbase is very pleasant to play with.

    <!--quoteo(post=1992262:date=Oct 16 2012, 02:57 PM:name=Reeke)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Reeke @ Oct 16 2012, 02:57 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992262"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Problem is, what constitutes as "rude" is up to personal opinion.

    This is really an issue for server admins and how they want to police it.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    A statement I can fully agree with.
    I don't want people to think I'm advocating for a system where anyone who just drops a single insult should get instabanned. I think community servers should be moderated by their own rules. If my first post appeared too elitist its because I wasn't sure what tone to use in my very first post on this forum. I thoroughly enjoy playing this game and I only want to add to the community in a positive way.
  • KhyronKhyron Join Date: 2012-02-02 Member: 143308Members
    edited October 2012
    If somebody has an outburst, I'm not inclined to comment or warn or kick. If somebody has a sustained rant, I might say something like 'let's get on with the game'. If somebody is really sustaining a verbal assault on one particular player or against the team for an extended period I'll probably say something a bit more direct. Smack talk is perfectly fine.

    I will warn and kick players who make a racist or sexist kind of comment, something clearly inappropriate. It's a social game so there is a minimum social standard I expect to be upheld. It is exceedingly rare though. There are only a handful of times I've ever felt the need to kick someone for that level of behavior. Overwhelmingly people will back down and apologise to those they were abusing.

    The one thing I see most often is things being called gá Žay. It's not ok. I will warn and kick people who say it. At the very least, it's the kind of immature prattle that floods so many online games and is immensely boring. I would like to think the NS2 community is above that.

    Volcano's response, "Welcome to the internet" is half an answer. Yes, you might be offended by something you hear. The other half of the answer is that being on the internet doesn't license you to be as offensive as you want.

    RentalCorpse, I hope this post helped you decide if what happened merits a response from a server admin or not. I wasn't there; you've been short on detail here (perfectly fine) and so I'm not going to judge either way. If you think there's a case to answer for, try and get in touch with a server admin.

    Edit: to get around the world filter, I hope the mods understand.
  • VeNeMVeNeM Join Date: 2002-07-13 Member: 928Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1992274:date=Oct 16 2012, 08:11 AM:name=Khyron)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Khyron @ Oct 16 2012, 08:11 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992274"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->Volcano's response, "Welcome to the internet" is half an answer. Yes, you might be offended by something you hear. The other half of the answer is that being on the internet doesn't license you to be as offensive as you want.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    since when, are you now the internet police? people can be as offensive as they want to (which is all relative anyway). they just have to life with the consequences. if they fall within the boundaries of the forum they are in who are you to dictate who says what. just like you have the right to ban/warn/kick on whatever server youre admin on. besides, most people didnt buy the game to play happy happy fun time with some stranger 3000 miles away.
  • RentalCorpseRentalCorpse Join Date: 2012-10-16 Member: 162456Members
    Many thanks for your reply Khyron, NS2's community is one of the most pleasant ones if not the most pleasant I've ever played in, and I certainly hope it will continue to be as positive as it is now when the game is launched. I don't think I'll be making a case around my experience earlier, as I don't know what drove the player when he acted the way he did.

    <!--quoteo(post=1992279:date=Oct 16 2012, 03:18 PM:name=VeNeM)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (VeNeM @ Oct 16 2012, 03:18 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992279"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->since when, are you now the internet police? people can be as offensive as they want to (which is all relative anyway). they just have to life with the consequences. if they fall within the boundaries of the forum they are in who are you to dictate who says what. just like you have the right to ban/warn/kick on whatever server youre admin on. besides, most people didnt buy the game to play happy happy fun time with some stranger 3000 miles away.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    So who are you then to decide for 'most people' that they don't play a game for fun?
  • countbasiecountbasie Join Date: 2008-12-27 Member: 65884Members
    I remember from NS1 that the general community was nice, but some NS-Pro players were the biggest *ssholes running around in the internet.
  • KhyronKhyron Join Date: 2012-02-02 Member: 143308Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1992279:date=Oct 17 2012, 12:18 AM:name=VeNeM)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (VeNeM @ Oct 17 2012, 12:18 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992279"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->since when, are you now the internet police? people can be as offensive as they want to (which is all relative anyway). they just have to life with the consequences. if they fall within the boundaries of the forum they are in who are you to dictate who says what. just like you have the right to ban/warn/kick on whatever server youre admin on.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Yeah I agree, consequences. If it were a license, there would be no consequences.
  • VeNeMVeNeM Join Date: 2002-07-13 Member: 928Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1992281:date=Oct 16 2012, 08:22 AM:name=RentalCorpse)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (RentalCorpse @ Oct 16 2012, 08:22 AM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992281"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->So who are you then to decide for 'most people' that they don't play a game for fun?<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    the internet police of course
  • MangoMango Join Date: 2012-10-11 Member: 162061Members
    I also notice the guys who complain the most are usually the ones who are above everyone. "Elitist jerks" the guys who "never" makes a mistake and will call you out in a second. I just ignore those guys too. But, a ignore list would be nice to have as well.
  • VolcanoVolcano Join Date: 2011-07-27 Member: 112496Members, Constellation
    the ingame mute function should also mute text person being muted just sayin
  • RuntehRunteh Join Date: 2010-06-26 Member: 72163Members, Reinforced - Shadow
    You'll always have people being stupid in a world of anonymity. I love the internet for this.
  • _Necro__Necro_ Join Date: 2011-02-15 Member: 81895Members, Reinforced - Shadow
    edited October 2012
    And I hate humanity for this. Sadly, the only solution to this would be to get rid of that anonymity. A far worse thing than we have now.
    So, yes. The only thing for you to say is: Try to be a good person yourself and ignore the people who aren't.

    €dit: Oh, I have to add something after reading all the posts: As long as so many people think it is normal to be rude on the internet, nothing will ever change.
    And that with the argument: "It is this way because it is this way." Very sad.
  • Kouji_SanKouji_San Sr. Hινε Uρкεερεг - EUPT Deputy The Netherlands Join Date: 2003-05-13 Member: 16271Members, NS2 Playtester, Squad Five Blue
    edited October 2012
    It always amuses me that there are people out there who think they have some kind of right to not be offended or get smacktalk by other people. There is no such right other than racism and personal threats, I guess. However it is only natural you develop a shield against that sort of stuff, especially on the internet. Some people tend to have more trouble with that part than others though...

    Fact is, due to the anonymity of the internet, people tend to have much smaller boundaries and some use this for verbal noise. But it is up to you to either ignore or feed the trolls, feeding them usually makes it worse... <b>Taking this into the NS2 realm, you can ignore this with the use of the mute voice system, if they are talking smack through the voice chat and the game has admin tools to kick/ban</b>. If it does go out of control, you have the choice to let it bother you or ignore it (mute button). But in the end it is up to the moderators/admins to deal with it if it does. You as a player can't do anything to stop it, since you do not have the tools to influence them, other than the client-side mute button.

    The internet can only be policed in quite a limited way, the same goes for multiplayer games. The most you can do is contact an admin or moderator and let them deal with, that is if it is indeed against community/server rules.
  • PikachuPikachu Join Date: 2012-10-03 Member: 161437Members
    edited October 2012
    I think you guys have been playing on closed/admined servers too much to appreciate how much a single player can ruin multiple games because of poor votekick-voteban implementation. The typical game server does not have an admin online at any given moment.

    <!--quoteo--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE </div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->A good fix for this in the past was the always-successful vote-kick. However, I've been playing games recently where players just flat out refuse to even vote for a kick, so I'm not sure what to do about this particular problem... Still, vote-kick seems worth trying out.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Typical for a voting system that allows the opposing team to vote, or that counts non-votes as nays.
  • TechercizerTechercizer 7th Player Join Date: 2011-06-11 Member: 103832Members
    edited October 2012
    As in the real world, the only people who are responsible for what others say are the people who say them and the people who have directly claimed responsibility for them. If you don't like what someone says, talk to them about it. If that doesn't work, go somewhere else or talk to their clan leader. If they're independent, you can try asking the admin of the server they're on, but "rudeness" isn't really their purview.

    I don't know what you expected to accomplish by starting a thread about this; you need to learn how to deal with people you don't like as both a online skill and one for real life.
  • Kouji_SanKouji_San Sr. Hινε Uρкεερεг - EUPT Deputy The Netherlands Join Date: 2003-05-13 Member: 16271Members, NS2 Playtester, Squad Five Blue
    <!--quoteo(post=1992300:date=Oct 16 2012, 02:30 PM:name=Techercizer)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Techercizer @ Oct 16 2012, 02:30 PM) <a href="index.php?act=findpost&pid=1992300"><{POST_SNAPBACK}></a></div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->I don't know what you expected to accomplish by starting a thread about this; you need to learn how to deal with people you don't like as both a online skill and one for real life.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Well one thing that could be taken from this thread is that we do indeed need some kind of player control way to deal with it, when there is no admin to deal with it. Votekick/votemap are basic options of any multiplayer game, but currently is reliant on server mods.
  • XariusXarius Join Date: 2003-12-21 Member: 24630Members, Reinforced - Supporter
    There should be a votekick feature imo, and mute should also mute text chat...but aside from that, there's really not much we as a community can do about those few rotten individuals.
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