How to Spot a Gender Faker

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  • KainTSAKainTSA Join Date: 2005-05-30 Member: 52831Members, Constellation
    edited May 2007
    I'm sorry, it simply IS true <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tounge.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":p" border="0" alt="tounge.gif" />

    I guess we just happen to disagree on the impact gender has on personality, and therefore on its importance in the non-physical world of games. I have to say I see more differences between my male and female friends than I do between my friends of different economic/ethnic backgrounds.

    And even if what you say about how little gender impacts personality is true, you just said you agree that a fake female is more likely than a real one to mess with you in some way. So its still important to know whether or not that female elf really is female. Although by that logic its not important to know if a male character is really male, but that's not what we're talking about here.
  • DiscoZombieDiscoZombie Join Date: 2003-08-05 Member: 18951Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1628983:date=May 24 2007, 01:55 PM:name=KainTSA)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(KainTSA @ May 24 2007, 01:55 PM) [snapback]1628983[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    Yeah I haven't been able to convince my fiance to play any game besides bejeweled but she is starting LOTR with me soon. Same thing with my best friend's girl. Something about the game seems to appeal to women more than most others. Maybe because they already know the universe so its easier to get into the game.
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    yep, I play with my fiance, and there's about 4 other couples in the guild too... I guess since it's a more 'mature' feeling universe, it attracts more of us old people and our old ladies <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/nerd-fix.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid="::nerdy::" border="0" alt="nerd-fix.gif" /> I actually put a post in the official forum for our realm inviting other couples to come over, since there's apparently a big demand for couples guilds =p
  • KainTSAKainTSA Join Date: 2005-05-30 Member: 52831Members, Constellation
    I'll have to look into that post <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile-fix.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":)" border="0" alt="smile-fix.gif" />

    I have definetely noticed a much more mature crowd playing LOTR. I see even nub questions get answered with respect by most people. I wonder if its because the toned down style of LOTR doesn't appeal to younger people as much as the more intense feel of WoW magic/armor/weapons. (I'm not saying one is better than the other at all, just that they attract a different crowd) Could also just be because LOTR is newer.
  • Browser_ICEBrowser_ICE Join Date: 2002-11-04 Member: 6944Members
    Funny and interesting replies.

    Personnaly, I don't care about player's gender. To me its <b>A</b> player with or without skills.

    Some of you guys are lucky to be playing with your girlfriend or wife. Mine simply isn't into computer games other then Shangai.
  • ThaldarinThaldarin Alonzi&#33; Join Date: 2003-07-15 Member: 18173Members, Constellation
    You guys do realise I am a girl, right?
  • InsaneInsane Anomaly Join Date: 2002-05-13 Member: 605Members, Super Administrators, Forum Admins, NS1 Playtester, Forum Moderators, NS2 Developer, Constellation, NS2 Playtester, Squad Five Blue, NS2 Map Tester, Subnautica Developer, Pistachionauts, Future Perfect Developer
    <!--quoteo(post=1628995:date=May 24 2007, 07:45 PM:name=KainTSA)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(KainTSA @ May 24 2007, 07:45 PM) [snapback]1628995[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    I'm sorry, it simply IS true <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tounge.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":p" border="0" alt="tounge.gif" />

    I guess we just happen to disagree on the impact gender has on personality, and therefore on its importance in the non-physical world of games. I have to say I see more differences between my male and female friends than I do between my friends of different economic/ethnic backgrounds.

    And even if what you say about how little gender impacts personality is true, you just said you agree that a fake female is more likely than a real one to mess with you in some way. So its still important to know whether or not that female elf really is female. Although by that logic its not important to know if a male character is really male, but that's not what we're talking about here.
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    Based on what? You've offered no argument to support your ideas that it's the most important factor in defining personality. Plus, all you're saying about your friends is that when you lump them into one set of groups that don't play a sizeable role in defining personality, rather than another, you see a few more differences. Given that these groups are largely arbitrary under the subject matter, could it be that they're all just different people with individual personalities and you're looking for ways to lump them into unnescessary and over-generalised personality types?

    And no, what's more important is not treating people you percieve as being female differently. If that happened, the scammers would have nothing to go on and it wouldn't even be an issue. And if she really is female, then the chances are she doesn't want to be treated differently either.

    The fact that you don't care whether or not the players that present as male realy are men suggests that you're more interested in singling out women than dealing with scammers.
  • KainTSAKainTSA Join Date: 2005-05-30 Member: 52831Members, Constellation
    <!--quoteo(post=1629176:date=May 25 2007, 08:25 AM:name=Insane)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Insane @ May 25 2007, 08:25 AM) [snapback]1629176[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    The fact that you don't care whether or not the players that present as male realy are men suggests that you're more interested in singling out women than dealing with scammers.
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    LOL why does every thread have to turn into an argument?

    Anyway, this last sentance doesn't make any sense. It suggests that I AM more interested in dealing with scammers because I care whether female characters are really female, and not whether male characters are really male (I've yet to come across females pretending to be male to scam).

    There's not point in arguing this further and derailing the topic. Neither one of is going to change their mind. <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile-fix.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":)" border="0" alt="smile-fix.gif" />


    <!--quoteo(post=1629059:date=May 24 2007, 07:43 PM:name=Browser_ICE)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Browser_ICE @ May 24 2007, 07:43 PM) [snapback]1629059[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    Some of you guys are lucky to be playing with your girlfriend or wife. Mine simply isn't into computer games other then Shangai.
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    Well the fact that she will play one might give you an opening some day. Try to get her into a game based on a movie or book she likes. I think that's why LOTR is so succesful.
  • FaskaliaFaskalia Wechsellichtzeichenanlage Join Date: 2004-09-12 Member: 31651Members, Constellation
    edited May 2007
    <!--quoteo(post=1629165:date=May 25 2007, 01:08 PM:name=Thaldarin)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Thaldarin @ May 25 2007, 01:08 PM) [snapback]1629165[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    You guys do realise I am a girl, right?
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    I demand proof,
    decapitate yourself and send me the head!

    EDIT: And then there is also your hompage with some pics and this paragraph:
    <!--quoteo--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    Information
    Who is behind notnubatmapping.co.uk? James Dethridge, but who is he? Where is he from? What does he do?

    <b>I am just another normal average guy</b>. Born on the 14th May 1988 in the capital of England London, although now living in the quiet coastal town of Sheerness on the Isle of Sheppey in Mid-Kent. I have hopes and dreams and goals like the rest of the people in the world. Currently nearing the end of my teenage years (still with alot of growing up to do!) I enjoy everything that everybody else enjoys including socialising, listening to music, keeping fit and I also despise what most teenagers do including part-time work and the English education system.

    The purpose for this website is to host a level-design portfolio for computer games, in particular Half-Life games. I got interested in Half-Life as soon as it was realised and got interested in game design and level design five years ago in 2002. I have dabbled here and there in level design although never really got a working portfolio before, hopefully as I am now maturing a bit more I can keep a portfolio and maybe even add additional portfolios to the site.

    I don't keep many images or pictures of myself but below are a few golden oldies I managed to dig out! <!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    post scriptum: You need a haircut <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink-fix.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=";)" border="0" alt="wink-fix.gif" />
  • ThansalThansal The New Scum Join Date: 2002-08-22 Member: 1215Members, Constellation
    <!--quoteo(post=1629189:date=May 25 2007, 09:53 AM:name=Faskalia)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Faskalia @ May 25 2007, 09:53 AM) [snapback]1629189[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    I demand proof,
    decapitate yourself and send me the head!
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    no, it is ###### OR GTFO


    cut of your jubblie bits and send them to Faskalia.


    BTW, I will continue with this line:
    Who cares? If they are a chick? awsome. If they are a guy? awsome. If they are an AI? TOTALY SWEET!

    The only people that it matters to are insecure little dweebs (it is fun watchign a "female" character get on VC and having people freak out), and people tryign to "get some". If you like watchign blue butts (/me nods to /gu) then go roll a female inky.






    Oh, and I am still suprised that no one answered the original question.

    best way to Spot a gender faker?

    It's the ****.
  • AbraAbra Would you kindly Join Date: 2003-08-17 Member: 19870Members
    I am a lusty feisty (whatever that means) teen gurrl who is totally hung for you guys, wanna join happy fun for Gold? tehee giggle I need to go do lapdance K thxBye, gg raid.
  • ThansalThansal The New Scum Join Date: 2002-08-22 Member: 1215Members, Constellation
    <!--quoteo(post=1629204:date=May 25 2007, 10:41 AM:name=Abra)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Abra @ May 25 2007, 10:41 AM) [snapback]1629204[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    ...who is totally <b>hung</b> for you guys...
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    Emph mine

    well, there is a perfect example for every one.

    How to tell?
    take a line from Crocadile Dundee.
  • BijiyBijiy Fantastic Damage Join Date: 2003-11-28 Member: 23697Members
    <!--quoteo(post=1628789:date=May 23 2007, 01:47 PM:name=Depot)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Depot @ May 23 2007, 01:47 PM) [snapback]1628789[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    Nice try, no cigar - you lose.

    Your second guess?
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    Olmy.
  • JimmehJimmeh Join Date: 2003-08-24 Member: 20173Members, Constellation
    <!--quoteo(post=1629201:date=May 25 2007, 03:36 PM:name=Thansal)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Thansal @ May 25 2007, 03:36 PM) [snapback]1629201[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    no, it is ###### OR GTFO
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    [] ######
    [] GTFO
  • ThaldarinThaldarin Alonzi&#33; Join Date: 2003-07-15 Member: 18173Members, Constellation
    <!--quoteo(post=1629189:date=May 25 2007, 02:53 PM:name=Faskalia)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Faskalia @ May 25 2007, 02:53 PM) [snapback]1629189[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    I demand proof,
    decapitate yourself and send me the head!

    EDIT: And then there is also your hompage with some pics and this paragraph:
    post scriptum: You need a haircut <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink-fix.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=";)" border="0" alt="wink-fix.gif" />
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    I knew someone would uncover me damnit <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad-fix.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":(" border="0" alt="sad-fix.gif" /> Yeah I've had a haircut, they're pretty old pictars <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tounge.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":p" border="0" alt="tounge.gif" />
  • KainTSAKainTSA Join Date: 2005-05-30 Member: 52831Members, Constellation
    <!--quoteo(post=1629204:date=May 25 2007, 10:41 AM:name=Abra)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Abra @ May 25 2007, 10:41 AM) [snapback]1629204[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    I am a lusty feisty (whatever that means) teen gurrl who is totally hung for you guys, wanna join happy fun for Gold? tehee giggle I need to go do lapdance K thxBye, gg raid.
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    You had me at "tehee".
  • ZaggyZaggy NullPointerException The Netherlands Join Date: 2003-12-10 Member: 24214Forum Moderators, NS2 Playtester, Reinforced - Onos, Subnautica Playtester
    <!--quoteo(post=1629204:date=May 25 2007, 10:41 AM:name=Abra)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Abra @ May 25 2007, 10:41 AM) [snapback]1629204[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    I am a lusty feisty (whatever that means) teen gurrl who is totally hung for you guys, wanna join happy fun for Gold? tehee giggle I need to go do lapdance K thxBye, gg raid.
    <!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    thank you for laughs

    I gotta investigate this 'girl' thingy more.
  • MamboKingMamboKing Join Date: 2004-03-06 Member: 27169Members
    edited May 2007
    There are no women on the internet! edit:But who cares really, as long as everyone has a good time right? *wink*
  • PerfectionsFlawPerfectionsFlaw Join Date: 2003-02-14 Member: 13555Members
    <!--quoteo--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->6. Stripper Names

    HoneyStar or PuffyPant might be the names of My-Little-Ponies on occasion - but if you spot such screen names online, it's a dead giveaway of someone who is a) not a girl and/or b) someone who desperately aspires to pole dance. Like overdoing the color pink, someone with an incredibly girly name is probably someone trying way too hard to pass for a girl. Though, girls are creative and will come up with elaborate names. Thus, if you meet a character named Moodshadow or Ethelenreid (anything vaguely Tolkien), it probably is a girl. If her name is SweetHoneyB13, probably not. <!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    I strongly disagree with this. My MMORPG character names are as follows
    WOW;
    Stormgaze, a female orc warlock

    COV;
    Vicious Valeria, a female fire corr

    LORTO;
    Firithwin, a female champion of Rohan
    Isilwenial, a female hobbit thief

    Ragnarok Online;
    Lilith Walsh, a female archer

    EVE;
    Lilith Walsh

    Those are just the girls btw, I am a doubly creative person and while I can make a character in an hour or so I spend at least fourty minutes or more pining over the right name. So, this totally ruins this theory. Men can be creative too.

    <!--quoteo--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->I don't know about that. A person's gender usually tells you more about their personality than any other one attribute. And since our personality is all we are known by online, I'd say its useful information to have before I go out on a raid with someone. For example, I would say on average *real* women are much less likely to steal/loot/stab you in the back online than a 'fake' one. Yes there are exceptions to every rule, but that doesn't mean the rules aren't generally true/useful.<!--QuoteEnd--></div><!--QuoteEEnd-->

    .....When I do evil things my character is generally a big burly dude. Stealing, pvping, all that mess I'm always some gigantic orc or dude who laughs afterwards. Whilst when I play a female character I'm generally sympathetic to newbies so much that I don't call them 'noobs' I am more prone to help others while also being dependant on some friends. Though I never let anyone hold my hand, because I like to feel as if I've accomplished something.

    I have come across the occasional stalker, they are extremely annoying. There was an instance in RO where I wandered into a high level area and was trying to find the way out when two higher lvl characters... Who were obviously much younger, ran around me in circles screaming <i>"Protect the princess!"</i> until I willing ran into the orcs to end the suffering.

    I don't walk around telling everyone I'm a guy. However, should anyone ask I always state that I am in fact a dude.

    The girl avatars are so much better looking. The developers/modelers/whatever always seem to spend more time making the women than the men. When more character creators become like COV/COH I will be more prone to play male avatars.
  • GeminosityGeminosity :3 Join Date: 2003-09-08 Member: 20667Members
    To be honest I would've thought most of that read like common sense but I guess some guys have a weird perception of what girls are like or something.

    Sorta reminds me of when I used to roleplay in games; a fanboy noticed how much people responded to me and started playing a female character. At first it was just annoying because he'd copy some of my habits (not just my character's ones, MINE too! >< ) and then he started making her all 'oh I broke a nail' and stuff.
    Instead of being determined, witty and competent like most of my characters his was filled with lots of horrible cliched 'helplessness', pink stuff. The scary or sad thing was that one or two random people actually thought he was a girl and gave him things o.O

    I don't know if I was more angry at him for playing the kind of character I detest or at the people who were stupid enough to fall for it.

    I guess the biggest illustration of how silly guys can be was when two of my friends (they're married, husband and wife) went onto a game and both played female characters; the boys were all over the hubby while they flat out accused my other friend of being a guy XD
  • Soylent_greenSoylent_green Join Date: 2002-12-20 Member: 11220Members, Reinforced - Shadow
    Don't ask, don't tell TBH.
  • ThansalThansal The New Scum Join Date: 2002-08-22 Member: 1215Members, Constellation
    <!--quoteo(post=1629778:date=May 29 2007, 08:23 AM:name=Geminosity)--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Geminosity @ May 29 2007, 08:23 AM) [snapback]1629778[/snapback]</div><div class='quotemain'><!--quotec-->
    I guess the biggest illustration of how silly guys can be was when two of my friends (they're married, husband and wife) went onto a game and both played female characters; the boys were all over the hubby while they flat out accused my other friend of being a guy XD
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    BWUAHAHAHAHA

    I am so tempted to try that with my GF now <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/biggrin-fix.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":D" border="0" alt="biggrin-fix.gif" />

    Admitedly she doen't talk in game when we play so.....
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