im in love with the crazies
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<div class="IPBDescription">aieeeeeeee</div>so today started out pretty nice, sat around in my underwear, played some warcraft 3, about 1pm i actually took a shower, then my girlfriend came over, then my ex-girlfriend left, then i went and got the biggest godd*mn milkshake i could find, put on some loud music, and im feeling much better. what strikes me as odd is the last 3 out of 4 times a girlfriend made the transformation into an ex girlfriend, she happened to be a crazy. bipolar, or bipolar and egotistical but incredibly sensitive at the same time, or just plain incredibly afraid commitment or getting close to anyone to the point that she has no close friends and breaks up with me after 4 months of an awesome long distance relationship because now we are actually together where we can actually connect.
oh and i almost forgot to mention my friends girlfriend was a bit of a crazy as well. needy and whiny and borderline suicidal.
who wants to find me a normal girlfriend? or share your stories of your crazy exs?
oh and i almost forgot to mention my friends girlfriend was a bit of a crazy as well. needy and whiny and borderline suicidal.
who wants to find me a normal girlfriend? or share your stories of your crazy exs?
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who wants to find me a normal girlfriend? or share your stories of your crazy exs?
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This reminds me of a great joke.
A long time ago, a man found a bottle on the beach of England. He rubbed the bottle and a magical Jin appeared.
The Jin said: "You have awakened me from my slumber, I will grant you one wish."
The man said: "Great, I allways wanted a bridge from here to America, so I don't have to fly there."
The Jin said: "A bridge to America? Are you crazy, do you know how long that will take? Impossible, you'll have to wish something else."
So the man thought long and hard and finnally he said: "Ok, I want you to find me a woman that does not need my emotional support."
The Jin starred blanky: "Three or four lane bridge?"
This reminds me of a great joke.
A long time ago, a man found a bottle on the beach of England. He rubbed the bottle and a magical Jin appeared.
The Jin said: "You have awakened me from my slumber, I will grant you one wish."
The man said: "Great, I allways wanted a bridge from here to America, so I don't have to fly there."
The Jin said: "A bridge to America? Are you crazy, do you know how long that will take? Impossible, you'll have to wish something else."
So the man thought long and hard and finnally he said: "Ok, I want you to find me a woman that does not need my emotional support."
The Jin starred blanky: "Three or four lane bridge?"
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Made me chuccle
Anywho, some days she would open up and spill all her secrets to me, others she would scream for me to leave her alone. Some days she'd actually engage in playful banter, others she's shun how people engaged in playful banter. You see she was one of the rare ones to have a good childhood and never went through depression until she hit seventeen. As if to catch up on lost time it hit her hard and heavy. For no reason the world is falling apart and she has to medicate herself. Even though I'm by her whenever she needs me she says I'm never there.
As young people often are I became instantly stupid, in other words I fell in love. Asked her to marry me on a thursday, after what seemed like an eternity she smiled and said yes. Embrace and kisses follow blah blah. Then friday morning she says to me it will never work and it just ends. Few months later, she's dating my bartender. <i>SON of a ######!</i> Long islands have never tasted the same.
That's my story, this is my advice. Date her, all women are crazy so this is good training for what has yet to come. Don't, however, fall in love with her. Cause they're not very good with long-term relationships. In fact, trade any form of love for a better form of companionship if possible. Love fades, but friends last much longer.
John, there is no such thing as <b><u>NORMAL</u></b>. It's an illusion made by the general populous to make you conform. To be normal is to conform, to <b><u>OBEY</u></b>, to turn yourself into puppet and allow the puppet master to shove his hand up your ######. That being said, I had a manic depressive girlfriend once. A real shutout. You see I started our realationship with no intent whatsoever of becoming involved beyond friends. So we've been friends for a few months and the real realationship starts like this, one day she says <i>"You know you are the only guy I can talk to, who doesn't try and hit on me."</i> At the exact moment, I felt emasculated. The mamalian brain kicked in and says "Manhood in question, prove us man." and I was like ohh ish. There goes another friend, because I know that the moment you take any realationship beyond platonic with a friend of the opposite sex, it will never be able to go back to the way it was.
Anywho, some days she would open up and spill all her secrets to me, others she would scream for me to leave her alone. Some days she'd actually engage in playful banter, others she's shun how people engaged in playful banter. You see she was one of the rare ones to have a good childhood and never went through depression until she hit seventeen. As if to catch up on lost time it hit her hard and heavy. For no reason the world is falling apart and she has to medicate herself. Even though I'm by her whenever she needs me she says I'm never there.
As young people often are I became instantly stupid, in other words I fell in love. Asked her to marry me on a thursday, after what seemed like an eternity she smiled and said yes. Embrace and kisses follow blah blah. Then friday morning she says to me it will never work and it just ends. Few months later, she's dating my bartender. <i>SON of a ######!</i> Long islands have never tasted the same.
That's my story, this is my advice. Date her, all women are crazy so this is good training for what has yet to come. Don't, however, fall in love with her. Cause they're not very good with long-term relationships. In fact, trade any form of love for a better form of companionship if possible. Love fades, but friends last much longer.
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This is wrong. Some people are crazy and some people are not. This says nothing about whether or not they are good people, but you have to realize that sometimes someone who is bonkers just isn't going to work.
You were in the "friend zone". Usually once you try to take it beyond that it will never work out because she sees you as more of a brother.
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Meh those types of relationships have been the best for me. Except for we never saw each other as brother/sister, that's just sick to the core.
<b>So, there are "normal" chicks out there.</b> Do I want one? Not really. Not anytime soon. I want the next one to be out of her mind. We'll go skydiving, eat pufferfish, sneak into rock shows, and have sex upside down, or something.
[...]Few months later, she's dating my bartender. <i>SON of a ######!</i> Long islands have never tasted the same.[...]
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Tea very nearly sprayed out my nose. Thank you for almost ruining my breakfast. <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tounge.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":p" border="0" alt="tounge.gif" />
and what kinda ticks me off is that i spent all fall semester single. i certainly wasnt desperate for a gal, but i had my eyes open. then in jan i hook up with this gal who just broke up with me today. well the other day my friend told me that apparently like 8 of her sorority friends wanted her to ask me specifically to go to a date party with them. where the hell are these women when im single?
John, there is no such thing as <b><u>NORMAL</u></b>. It's an illusion made by the general populous to make you conform. To be normal is to conform, to <b><u>OBEY</u></b>, to turn yourself into puppet and allow the puppet master to shove his hand up your ######.
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What kind of pseudo-intellectual bullsh*t is that? Off to Starbucks with you.
My first and only girlfriend went through all my e-mail accounts and such searching for a reason we broke up, I guess "long distance" wasn't a good enough reason.
I've dated some nightmares myself (a suicidal being the worst, I'd say. I've actually fallen into relationships with TWO cutters, outside that. Jeez.). But, I managed to most recently date a cheerleader with good grades, for about 3 years. Until she cheated on me. I would call that normal, too.
<b>So, there are "normal" chicks out there.</b> Do I want one? Not really. Not anytime soon. I want the next one to be out of her mind. We'll go skydiving, eat pufferfish, sneak into rock shows, and have sex upside down, or something.
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That's the spirit!
Don't look for normal, look for that special brand of crazy you can learn to love.
<b>So, there are "normal" chicks out there.</b> Do I want one? Not really. Not anytime soon. I want the next one to be out of her mind. We'll go skydiving, eat pufferfish, sneak into rock shows, and have sex upside down, or something.
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Amen to that brother.
bring on the crazy. it might offset mine a little!
You were in the "friend zone". Usually once you try to take it beyond that it will never work out because she sees you as more of a brother.
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Evil friend zone...
/grumbles and rants
I personally loved that so much more. When I was actually "dating" someone, all of these criteria had to be met to ensure it would/could survive. With my wife, we were just great friends, and that was enough.
I'm so glad to not have to deal with dating anymore <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/tounge.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":p" border="0" alt="tounge.gif" />
Weirdos.
--Scythe--
You're all crazy emo loons. I met my girlfriend in high school in 2000. At the end of 2002 we became a "couple". During the interim we were good friends. We've been living together since Christmas of 2004. No cheating, no cutting, no weirdo freaky crazy crap.
Weirdos.
--Scythe--
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Lies! I'm sure there is some weirdness somewhere. I've seen your quotes in the PT channel. Crazy aussies.
What kind of pseudo-intellectual bullsh*t is that? Off to Starbucks with you.
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I prefer Joe Mugg, that way I can read and drink a vanilla frappe. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norm_%28sociology%29" target="_blank">To be normal.</a> You must obey the social laws of society, conform or face retribution as quoted.
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Practically every girl I have ever dated has cut.
The most recent I didn't even know did until I was already involved. :/
I think I've got like cutter-radar or I'm a cutter-magnet or something.
I've got a couple theories about this though...
1. The attractive girls with a "perfect" body are more likely to have problems and blah... so me being slightly shallow and liking really attractive girls makes it more likely for me to find the ones with problems.
2. The messed up ones have more interesting minds, deeper levels to them... they're different, and so I'm more attracted to them.
3. This is my least favorite theory, but I have a need to be needed and it could be that I subconsciously go after these girls because I see they are someone that will need me.
Also, my past 2 relationships have grown out of longstanding friendships, and both were healthy and hapy for a very long time (well, the 2nd one still is healthy and happy....)
ive always thought that a relationship that grew out of a friendship would be a great one, because you are already so close and comfortable, and you already like each other for who they are. the problem lies in losing a friend to the breakup, and if the relationship is worth the possibility of loss. i have a great friend who im very close to, and shes quite attractive and cool, but im not sure if i would want to risk losing her friendship from a bad relationship. plus shes in a relationship.
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That last one makes the entire thing moot <img src="style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile-fix.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":)" border="0" alt="smile-fix.gif" />
Admitedly, if it is a strong enough friendship, then it can survive a breakup..
TBH, my last relationship was with a very good friend. The break up sucked hard. But we are still friends, it took a bit of time, but a large part of that was b/c shortly after the breakup I moved back home from college, now she is also back in the city and all is good again. Both of us are daiting other people, and hapy.
Murf, the answer to all relationship problems:
It depends on the situation, nuff said.
Don't stress, just be happy.
Boring is somebody who is no fun to be around.
Normal is somebody who can handle a relationship.
Crazy is somebody who has some kind of quirk that makes them unable to have a stable relationship.
Note the lack of specifics, because those are decided by you.
Also, I hate that saying "Nobody is normal!" because it just makes you sound like a desperate outcast trying to justify being a terrible introvert/social deviant.
Edit: I propose instead using the phrase "Normality is in the eye of the beholder".
I prefer Joe Mugg, that way I can read and drink a vanilla frappe. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norm_%28sociology%29" target="_blank">To be normal.</a> You must obey the social laws of society, conform or face retribution as quoted.
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That's not getting off on a technicality at all.
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We shouldn't even be talking about "boring people" because I doubt anyone will be attracted to someone they find boring.
It's not as black and white as you say, crazy does not mean unable to have a stable relationship. I had a relationship for two years with a girl that had all sorts of problems. She used to cut, she used to do drugs, and did do both during the start of the relationship. This didn't mean that she was unable to have a relationship, it just meant she wasn't normal.
I don't think there really are any "normal" people. There are different levels of screwed up. Normal would be someone who does not have any psychological problems. These people don't exist, everyone has their own insecurities, paranoias, phobias, whatever.
I think there are just different levels of crazy, and I think that the different perspective given by someone who has some psychological issues is part of what makes them more interesting, or the broader amount of experience with the darker parts of life.
There is not just "boring" "normal" and "crazy" as you define it Xyth.
We shouldn't even be talking about "boring people" because I doubt anyone will be attracted to someone they find boring.
It's not as black and white as you say, crazy does not mean unable to have a stable relationship. I had a relationship for two years with a girl that had all sorts of problems. She used to cut, she used to do drugs, and did do both during the start of the relationship. This didn't mean that she was unable to have a relationship, it just meant she wasn't normal.
I don't think there really are any "normal" people. There are different levels of screwed up. Normal would be someone who does not have any psychological problems. These people don't exist, everyone has their own insecurities, paranoias, phobias, whatever.
I think there are just different levels of crazy, and I think that the different perspective given by someone who has some psychological issues is part of what makes them more interesting, or the broader amount of experience with the darker parts of life.
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To be fair, I wasn't trying to make it black and white, I was trying to make a distinction between people with some kind of quirk, and people who are completely boring, since nobody else was making it.
Secondly, if everybody is some kind of crazy, then wouldn't being crazy then be considered normal? So what I said still applies...
It seems to be that people are getting the meanings of "Normal" and "Boring" mixed up.
Boring is somebody who is no fun to be around.
Normal is somebody who can handle a relationship.
Crazy is somebody who has some kind of quirk that makes them unable to have a stable relationship.
Note the lack of specifics, because those are decided by you.
<b>Also, I hate that saying "Nobody is normal!" because it just makes you sound like a desperate outcast trying to justify being a terrible introvert/social deviant.
Edit: I propose instead using the phrase "Normality is in the eye of the beholder".</b>
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Now that point I can go along with, cause I am a total introvert. It's the crazies that did it, seriously.
I just wasn't agreeing with "crazy = unable to have relationship".
It's the female birthright.