I Will Fail At Life
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title = name(self, handle) Join Date: 2003-02-15 Member: 13597Members, Constellation
title = name(self, handle) Join Date: 2003-02-15 Member: 13597Members, Constellation
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<div class="IPBDescription">I have a feeling...</div> I have allways sucked at things that require me to be responsible, and I'm in at a stage in my life (a few months left of High School), that I've started thinking about my future (which I should have been doing a while ago!). I was accepted into the school that I wanted (no clue how I'll pay for it, or how I got in...) But based on how I've preformed so far in my life, I'll end up droping out and living on the street with some sort of gaming device, playing games till it kills me.
I procrastonate on everything, and never do what I tell myself I'm going to. Yea, how can I suck less at life? How much is hypnotism, and does it work? <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> I really don't want to screw up my life because I'm uncontrollably lazy and horrible at well, life...
I procrastonate on everything, and never do what I tell myself I'm going to. Yea, how can I suck less at life? How much is hypnotism, and does it work? <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> I really don't want to screw up my life because I'm uncontrollably lazy and horrible at well, life...
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love != happiness
I am affraid of work, I'm lazy, I allways put off work untill the last minute to do somthing else, and I have no self controll... <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I'm hitting one of my depressed moods.
I procrastonate on everything, and never do what I tell myself I'm going to. Yea, how can I suck less at life? How much is hypnotism, and does it work? <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> I really don't want to screw up my life because I'm uncontrollably lazy and horrible at well, life... <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
welcome to my life population: 6
I am affraid of work, I'm lazy, I allways put off work untill the last minute to do somthing else, and I have no self controll... <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I'm hitting one of my depressed moods. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Well, my advice is not to get worried about stuff you can't fix. If you've missed the deadline for a scholarship or something, then it's too late to do anything about it, and there's no point in worrying about it.
Of course, this doesn't mean you shouldn't learn from it, which you will, one way or another. You should be patient with yourself though, as good habits can take a long time to develop (unlike bad habits)
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Probably not what you want to hear, but that's the way it is.
I procrastonate on everything, and never do what I tell myself I'm going to. Yea, how can I suck less at life? How much is hypnotism, and does it work? <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> I really don't want to screw up my life because I'm uncontrollably lazy and horrible at well, life... <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
We are teenagers, what else are we supposed to do? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
I procrastonate on everything, and never do what I tell myself I'm going to. Yea, how can I suck less at life? How much is hypnotism, and does it work? <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> I really don't want to screw up my life because I'm uncontrollably lazy and horrible at well, life... <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
We are teenagers, what else are we supposed to do? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
The same as all the other teenagers at my school, look happy all the time, get astounding grades, have a happy family with two parents that have time to spend with them, as well as money...
Just hang in there and keep hoping for a brighter future. A man without hope is a man in despair. You don't want to go there, because, that is when you become the person who has no life, who is a dropout, who does drugs; and all because life seems to be worthless...
Whatever you do, stay away from negative people and negative things, which the internet can be in its own way.
I think you'll find that reality is much different, and that most people work on a level of respect. Money usually means respect.
Anyways, if you're like me and looking for truth, hopefully we'll find something good before our lives turn into mud.
And, if you hit bottom, the only way left to go is up.
Keep kicking. You'll feel better after sleeping.
Peace man.
I procrastonate on everything, and never do what I tell myself I'm going to. Yea, how can I suck less at life? How much is hypnotism, and does it work? <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> I really don't want to screw up my life because I'm uncontrollably lazy and horrible at well, life... <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
We are teenagers, what else are we supposed to do? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
The same as all the other teenagers at my school, look happy all the time, get astounding grades, have a happy family with two parents that have time to spend with them, as well as money... <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Grass. Greener.
Honestly.
I procrastonate on everything, and never do what I tell myself I'm going to. Yea, how can I suck less at life? How much is hypnotism, and does it work? <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> I really don't want to screw up my life because I'm uncontrollably lazy and horrible at well, life... <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
We are teenagers, what else are we supposed to do? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
The same as all the other teenagers at my school, look happy all the time, get astounding grades, have a happy family with two parents that have time to spend with them, as well as money... <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Grass. Greener.
Honestly. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
always.
Just hang in there and keep hoping for a brighter future. A man without hope is a man in despair. You don't want to go there, because, that is when you become the person who has no life, who is a dropout, who does drugs; and all because life seems to be worthless...
Whatever you do, stay away from negative people and negative things, which the internet can be in its own way.
I think you'll find that reality is much different, and that most people work on a level of respect. Money usually means respect.
Anyways, if you're like me and looking for truth, hopefully we'll find something good before our lives turn into mud.
And, if you hit bottom, the only way left to go is up.
Keep kicking. You'll feel better after sleeping.
Peace man. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
some good advice but you have to realize you wont get ahead by just hoping nothing will get done unless you do it yourself
just keep trying
I got miserable grades in pretty worthless subjects at college, didn't go onto uni, went on the dole for a bit, moved halfway down the country and now I'm in a managerial position at my job. Working in a bookies may not be the be all and end all of careers but all the experience looks hella good on the 'ole CV
<b>YOU BETTER SHAPE UP</b>
(ooh ooh ooh!)
<b>'CAUSE I NEED A MAN!
AND MAH HEART IS SET ON YOUUUU!</b>
(and mah heart is set on youuu!)
<b>YOU BETTER SHAPE UP!
YOU BETTER UNDERSTAND!</b>
(ooh ooh ooh!)
<b>TO MAH HEART, TO MAH HEART, TO MAH HEART I MUST BE TRUUUEE!</b>
But yeah.. you'll grow out of being a slacker. If you've got a good idea of what you're good at/what you want to do in life, then I wouldn't worry so much about it.
When you are getting depressed, dont give up.
One way or another, you will have a better moment in your life.
And like always, we people is only thinking of the bad things instead of the good things.
Just think positive and be happy for what you have, and what kind person you are.
There is plenty of people who have thier life even worse then us.
I procrastonate on everything, and never do what I tell myself I'm going to. Yea, how can I suck less at life? How much is hypnotism, and does it work? <!--emo&:D--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html/emoticons/biggrin-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='biggrin-fix.gif' /><!--endemo--> I really don't want to screw up my life because I'm uncontrollably lazy and horrible at well, life... <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
I some how feal the same but I have two years of high school left. Except my high school will not let me move up levels (such as from regular to honors math even if I have a 98% in the class) so I have gotten really depressed and have become a really bad procrastonater and I feal I have already failed at life.
b/c if you are well then when you get to college and you act as unmotivated as you say then it wont be long until that moment does come and you find yourself working your **** off trying to get something really big done in a very little amount of time.
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Relax a little, you show real concern or you would not have "wasted the time" to make this thread.
Just set someshort term goals.
Read this chapter than play some games...
Write at least half/third of that paper then play some games...
True you might not be able to play as many games right then and there but it sure beats playing no games and doing the required work being rushed at the end and not be able to play any games at all lol. >_<
make it so you do your work on time on YOUR time, rather than putting it off and being pwned by the work.
You are in control! Dont give it up!
If games are too big of a distraction go do work in the library or someplace where your PC cant distract you.
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Besides, do well in college so you can get good job so you can get money to do lots of fun things!
You cant run to the store to but a new PC when you are homeless or poor.
What worked for me would have only put a normal person deeper into their depair, but oh well:
Play about 16 straight hours of NS, UT2K4, Joint Ops, etc. When I was done I felt like a new person (and for some reason I was no longer depressed and loved life).
...
Yea, I know, I'm addicted to games.
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love != happiness <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Says the 13 year old.
You sort of have two choices. Try as hard as you can to break the procrastination habit by trying really hard to do stuff before it NEEDS to be done, and you slowly inch your way forward out of the bad habit. The other choice is to decide that you've made it this far and hope that you're adept enough at life to succeed even if you procrastinate horribly. That's kind of where I am: I feel that I am smart enough that even if I have some bad habits I'll do fine.