Girls are overrated anyway. "woo, look how pretty i am!" "just so long as you keep your mouth shut" "why? im christian" "goddamnit.. you've ruined the illusion"
If you've done something you wouldn't do in the presence of your significant other, you're walking the line of cheating. Different people have different boundaries - but if you're in a monogamous relationship you need to know where those boundaries are - there should be no question.
<!--QuoteBegin-GrayDuck+Oct 26 2004, 04:42 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (GrayDuck @ Oct 26 2004, 04:42 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I too am with coil.
If you've done something you wouldn't do in the presence of your significant other, you're walking the line of cheating. Different people have different boundaries - but if you're in a monogamous relationship you need to know where those boundaries are - there should be no question. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> I'll example this, my girlfriend knows I am a total flirt with all my female friends, and hers for that matter. So if I was to cheat on her she wouldn't notice because it would look normal. Where as most people it would look the total opposite, and obvious they could be cheating.
<!--QuoteBegin-Thursday-+Oct 26 2004, 04:53 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Thursday- @ Oct 26 2004, 04:53 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-GrayDuck+Oct 26 2004, 04:42 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (GrayDuck @ Oct 26 2004, 04:42 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I too am with coil.
If you've done something you wouldn't do in the presence of your significant other, you're walking the line of cheating. Different people have different boundaries - but if you're in a monogamous relationship you need to know where those boundaries are - there should be no question. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> I'll example this, my girlfriend knows I am a total flirt with all my female friends, and hers for that matter. So if I was to cheat on her she wouldn't notice because it would look normal. Where as most people it would look the total opposite, and obvious they could be cheating. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Comforting thought, makes me wish I knew your gf's email adress. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-Venmoch+Oct 25 2004, 06:42 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Venmoch @ Oct 25 2004, 06:42 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> So basically coil your summing it up in this way....
"Cheating is like masturbation, it feels great for a while but is short-lived and makes you feel bad for a long time afterward......"
<!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd--> Why feel bad about enjoying your own body? :x
<!--QuoteBegin-Thursday-+Oct 26 2004, 04:53 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Thursday- @ Oct 26 2004, 04:53 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I'll example this, my girlfriend knows I am a total flirt with all my female friends, and hers for that matter. So if I was to cheat on her she wouldn't notice because it would look normal. Where as most people it would look the total opposite, and obvious they could be cheating. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Bad example Thursday. You flirting in front of your gf, but she’s okay with it because that’s your personality, and you may even have guilty pleasure in the flirty-ness, but you don’t proceed into anything physical (or hidden) – I do not call that cheating. If you can do every action in the presence of your gf, it is not cheating. Not in my book.
If you would feel upset/uncomfortable/unconsidered if your other came forward and told you they did X with such and such a person, it is cheating.
For you:
If you would feel upset/uncomfortable telling your partner that you did X with someone then it is cheating.
For both:
Even if the other party knows about it. If either one feels even the slightest against it then it is cheating (or very rude at best).
I have a friend (now married) whose GF would constantly hook up with other guys. She asked him first (even invited him along a few times) yet we all knew that my friend was uncomfortable to say no because he was afraid of losing his GF. That is cheating due to the lack of respect for the other person.
Cheating on someone is one of the worst things you can do to them. It demonstrates the ultimate lack of respect and trust.
<!--QuoteBegin-Venmoch+Oct 25 2004, 06:42 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Venmoch @ Oct 25 2004, 06:42 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> "Cheating is like masturbation, it feels great for a while but is short-lived and makes you feel bad for a long time afterward......" <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Is this some weird religious thing? <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/confused-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
<!--QuoteBegin-GrayDuck+Oct 26 2004, 11:39 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (GrayDuck @ Oct 26 2004, 11:39 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> <!--QuoteBegin-Thursday-+Oct 26 2004, 04:53 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Thursday- @ Oct 26 2004, 04:53 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I'll example this, my girlfriend knows I am a total flirt with all my female friends, and hers for that matter. So if I was to cheat on her she wouldn't notice because it would look normal. Where as most people it would look the total opposite, and obvious they could be cheating. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Bad example Thursday. You flirting in front of your gf, but she’s okay with it because that’s your personality, and you may even have guilty pleasure in the flirty-ness, but you don’t proceed into anything physical (or hidden) – I do not call that cheating. If you can do every action in the presence of your gf, it is not cheating. Not in my book. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd--> Some would say I'm foolish or just trying to make her jealous. Although she still wouldn't know if I was cheating .. thats if I was.
EDIT: I suppose I'm just showing how easy it could be to get away with cheating.
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i'm so single right now... n.n;
Girls are overrated anyway. "woo, look how pretty i am!" "just so long as you keep your mouth shut" "why? im christian" "goddamnit.. you've ruined the illusion"
If you've done something you wouldn't do in the presence of your significant other, you're walking the line of cheating. Different people have different boundaries - but if you're in a monogamous relationship you need to know where those boundaries are - there should be no question.
If you've done something you wouldn't do in the presence of your significant other, you're walking the line of cheating. Different people have different boundaries - but if you're in a monogamous relationship you need to know where those boundaries are - there should be no question. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
I'll example this, my girlfriend knows I am a total flirt with all my female friends, and hers for that matter. So if I was to cheat on her she wouldn't notice because it would look normal. Where as most people it would look the total opposite, and obvious they could be cheating.
If you've done something you wouldn't do in the presence of your significant other, you're walking the line of cheating. Different people have different boundaries - but if you're in a monogamous relationship you need to know where those boundaries are - there should be no question. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
I'll example this, my girlfriend knows I am a total flirt with all my female friends, and hers for that matter. So if I was to cheat on her she wouldn't notice because it would look normal. Where as most people it would look the total opposite, and obvious they could be cheating. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Comforting thought, makes me wish I knew your gf's email adress. <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
"Cheating is like masturbation, it feels great for a while but is short-lived and makes you feel bad for a long time afterward......"
<!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
Why feel bad about enjoying your own body? :x
"Cheating is like masturbation, it feels great for a while but is short-lived and makes you feel bad for a long time afterward......"
<!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo--> <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Why feel bad about enjoying your own body? :x <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
dirty dirty dirty pirate <!--emo&:0--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/wow.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='wow.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Bad example Thursday. You flirting in front of your gf, but she’s okay with it because that’s your personality, and you may even have guilty pleasure in the flirty-ness, but you don’t proceed into anything physical (or hidden) – I do not call that cheating. If you can do every action in the presence of your gf, it is not cheating. Not in my book.
For them:
If you would feel upset/uncomfortable/unconsidered if your other came forward and told you they did X with such and such a person, it is cheating.
For you:
If you would feel upset/uncomfortable telling your partner that you did X with someone then it is cheating.
For both:
Even if the other party knows about it. If either one feels even the slightest against it then it is cheating (or very rude at best).
I have a friend (now married) whose GF would constantly hook up with other guys. She asked him first (even invited him along a few times) yet we all knew that my friend was uncomfortable to say no because he was afraid of losing his GF. That is cheating due to the lack of respect for the other person.
Cheating on someone is one of the worst things you can do to them. It demonstrates the ultimate lack of respect and trust.
"Cheating is like masturbation, it feels great for a while but is short-lived and makes you feel bad for a long time afterward......"
<!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Is this some weird religious thing? <!--emo&???--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/confused-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='confused-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->
Bad example Thursday. You flirting in front of your gf, but she’s okay with it because that’s your personality, and you may even have guilty pleasure in the flirty-ness, but you don’t proceed into anything physical (or hidden) – I do not call that cheating. If you can do every action in the presence of your gf, it is not cheating. Not in my book. <!--QuoteEnd--></td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Some would say I'm foolish or just trying to make her jealous. Although she still wouldn't know if I was cheating .. thats if I was.
EDIT: I suppose I'm just showing how easy it could be to get away with cheating.