Why Do I Always Get Guilted?

DarkATiDarkATi Revelation 22:17 Join Date: 2003-06-20 Member: 17532Members, Reinforced - Shadow
Why? Why oh Why? It just absolutely makes no sense. It puts me in a horrible mood.

My father had a heart attack but he's OK now and back home but my mom says someone has to stay with him at all tims, which makes sense. Now here in Texas it is 12:37 and I am tired. I tell my dad that I need to go to bed and he says I can't cause he isn't tired and ready for bed yet. So we talk for a while and I tell him I need to get up early tomorrow because I'm meeting some band mates to record some stuff, he says you can sleep in and do it at night, so we keep talking and finally I say fine, we'll watch another movie, I'll stay up, whatever in a pretty upset tone. Well then he does his little guilt speech and makes me feel like an awful son about how "I do everything for you and you can't stay upw ith me." Then he tells me how painful it is to lay down and that if I knew the pain I wouldn't be sending him to bed. And I said, I'm not, I agreed to watch another movie with you and he's just like whatever and goes to bed and doesn't say a word to me and I'm just wondering, why?

I'm so horrible right now... when this isn't my fault. He sends me to bed all the time and says, oh well if you can't sleep, lay there but when I need him to, he can't. And what really makes me more mad than anything is that I finally agreed to stay with him and then he guilts me. It just isn't right. I don't even care to check this post for typos... so absurd. <!--emo&:(--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/sad-fix.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='sad-fix.gif' /><!--endemo-->

~ DarkATi

Comments

  • OmegamanOmegaman Join Date: 2004-01-11 Member: 25239Members
    edited September 2004
    Guilt trips suck the big one, especially for us Jews.
  • enf0rcerenf0rcer intrigued... Join Date: 2003-03-16 Member: 14584Members
    ...what? What does being jewish have to do with it?

    Anyway, yea that sucks. I get really pi**ed off when people always say "you always start the arguements" That doesn't even make sense, someone would have to argue with me for it to be started, hence we would both "start" the arguement. Then they end it with "Alright! whatever!" and that whole pained look on their face like they have nothing to do with it.

    /me slams fist into desk.
  • DarkATiDarkATi Revelation 22:17 Join Date: 2003-06-20 Member: 17532Members, Reinforced - Shadow
    Well, we patched things up... we have a really close relationship... still, so stressful.

    ~ DarkATi
  • LikuLiku I, am the Somberlain. Join Date: 2003-01-10 Member: 12128Members
    That sucks about the Heart Attack, and the Guilt Trip. But I guess he just wanted someone there if it were to happen again. When my mom gives me a Guilt Trip I make her feel guilty, it rules.
  • CabooseCaboose title = name(self, handle) Join Date: 2003-02-15 Member: 13597Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-Liku+Sep 4 2004, 01:14 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Liku @ Sep 4 2004, 01:14 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> When my mom gives me a Guilt Trip I make her feel guilty, it rules. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Don't you love doing that? <!--emo&:p--><img src='http://www.unknownworlds.com/forums/html//emoticons/tounge.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='tounge.gif' /><!--endemo-->
  • ThE_HeRoThE_HeRo Join Date: 2003-01-25 Member: 12723Members
    I like pulling the guilt trip on girls, then screwing them over just because I can.

    That'll teach you not to **** with me, hunny.
  • panda_de_malheureuxpanda_de_malheureux Join Date: 2003-12-26 Member: 24775Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Omegaman!+Sep 4 2004, 05:48 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Omegaman! @ Sep 4 2004, 05:48 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Guilt trips suck the big one, especially for us Jews. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    lol, made my day.
  • Bosnian_CowboyBosnian_Cowboy Join Date: 2003-06-07 Member: 17088Members, Constellation
    I wish my dad would make me feel guilty. You see, he can't because he's dead. What's up with that?
  • DivWDivW Join Date: 2003-06-23 Member: 17640Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-Omegaman!+Sep 4 2004, 12:48 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (Omegaman! @ Sep 4 2004, 12:48 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> Guilt trips suck the big one, especially for us Jews. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    bwahahaha
  • ThaldarinThaldarin Alonzi&#33; Join Date: 2003-07-15 Member: 18173Members, Constellation
    <!--QuoteBegin-ThE HeRo+Sep 4 2004, 08:22 AM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (ThE HeRo @ Sep 4 2004, 08:22 AM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> I like pulling the guilt trip on girls, then screwing them over just because I can.

    That'll teach you not to **** with me, hunny. <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    Idiot, moron and **** sums you up.
  • kabuumkabuum Join Date: 2004-07-25 Member: 30108Members
    maybe you simply havent been with your father for a while, oly with your friends. Maybe yoir father feels that his health is going downhill and maybe he is just... passing away.. So he simply wants to stay with you. This is not some anger or something, this is love. You should be happy for such parents. which one are more important to you, your family, or your friends with who you can hang out at any time and drink beer and stuff...
  • SoulSkorpionSoulSkorpion Join Date: 2002-04-12 Member: 423Members
    <!--QuoteBegin-enf0rcer+Sep 4 2004, 01:53 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td><b>QUOTE</b> (enf0rcer @ Sep 4 2004, 01:53 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'><!--QuoteEBegin--> ...what? What does being jewish have to do with it? <!--QuoteEnd--> </td></tr></table><div class='postcolor'> <!--QuoteEEnd-->
    We're kind of known for being good at guilt-tripping our offspring. Those of us that have offspring, I mean.
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